Ok so I just met this whore like a week and a half ago, and well everything was fine, (And she was aware that I had a dick between my legs), But when I told her I am going for my operation next month, She freaked out,She said she didn't want no p****, she wanted me just the way I am, I really want to become a women, I have only known this girl for 2 weeks and this is the longest I have been with a girl.Should I stay with her, or should I go do my operation and be happier, although I think she is the one. I am also a little freaked out about getting the operation,What if they mess up and I am stuck being a he she for the rest of my life.Also she is not comfortable with me being a prostitute, and that is my life, actually that is how I met her.WHat would u do in this situation???????Thanks.......
2006-12-10 09:48:51 · 12 answers · asked by kim 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need to man up. God made you the way you should be.
2006-12-10 09:52:14 · answer #1 · answered by masterzuaba 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't start fretting about your operation now. Make faith. Be happy, anticipate a fulfilling and satisfying future.
Here's what I think I'd do, or focus on, if in your position:
Think positive (operation-wise), for even if something goes awry, you'll have options and will make any choices wisely (for you will know best what's best for you).
After centering yourself and bonding with your spiritual place, tell your woman you'll always care for her, no matter what goes on with your body (if this is true). I think she'll break up or leave you, if you stay firm in your conviction to live your life as you've told her. I think she's not ready (tho' she could be quickly, if she really wanted ) to give you the kind of support you need at the time it's needed. Your need is to have friends, lovers, associates who respect you and your needs and have no issues interacting with you on that level. Get used to reading, drawing, crocheting or SOMEthing to utilize your time if you feel alone/lonely, but don't allow yourself to stay tight for too long with anyone who claims/wants to love you but can't treat you with the fairness and other traits that are evidence of love.
Wishing you success and peace of mind.
2006-12-10 20:12:46 · answer #2 · answered by Zeera 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to do whatever will make you happy. You need to do what you truly want, not what someone else wants. You also need to think of all teh possibilities, maybe this girl is the one and you can ahve a good life together, but then again what if she isnt and you pass up the operation. There is alot to consider, and it doesnt matter what anyone else thinks you should do, its what you want and only you. And its the choice that will make you teh happiest that you should choose...its your life and you shoudl be able to live it how you want.
2006-12-10 17:55:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well first off i think you need to change your profession theres more than that for a job second if she loves you (which seems kinda soon to tell) she should be happy with who you are but before you have the operation you need to decide if thats a risk you want to take or you could be with her either way you should do what makes you happy
god luck with everything even if i dont believe in some of the stuff you are doing with your life
2006-12-10 18:13:19 · answer #4 · answered by advise_gal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking you aren't sure yourself that you should have the operation. Since you aren't sure you should definitely wait and see how you really feel about it. Also if you think she is the one why would you even want the operation. As for being a prostitute isn't it time for a new job?
2006-12-10 17:56:48 · answer #5 · answered by siera_summer75 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm....you met a woman, and your a man, but you want a sex change operation, and want this woman, but she dont want you as a woman, and your also afraid of the operation.... honestley i think your having douts about the operation.. if you feel good making love to this woman, maybe you should think twice about surgery.. honey follow your heart tell you, no one can really figure this out for you.. maybe seeing a theripist might help.. Good luck hon and happy holidays.
2006-12-10 17:57:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a sticky situation, maybe you should give the relationship more time, cuz you've only known her for 2 weeks, she might not be what you expected....
2006-12-10 17:53:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
youve only known this girl fro 2 weeks and she asking you to make a risk for her. HELL NO i would make th eoperation and find a nice guy. if you want to be a women go ahead and be one.
2006-12-10 17:52:39 · answer #8 · answered by {.:*jugurl*:.} 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do whatever YOU think is best, dont do it for someone else. whatever will make YOU happier is what you should go with.
2006-12-10 17:51:31 · answer #9 · answered by Chelsea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um...... get her pregnant, and then get the operation, she be stuck wit u!Instead of screaming get down and suck my dick, scream get down and lick my pussy! lol
2006-12-10 17:58:17 · answer #10 · answered by pimp132 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋