My partner is pretty big and I am small. Can we do it this way without messing me up? Any girls have big partners and do this?
2006-12-10 09:45:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok first of all before you do anything check out the site talksexwithsue.com i think this is going to answer alot of your questions she explains what to do and some of the risks involved and how to get started be sure to read this because it is very insightful
and remember if you dont want to then dont cuz if your forced it will hurt more and could hurt you
2006-12-10 10:47:25 · answer #1 · answered by advise_gal 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Take it slow, lots of lube, and from the side (like spooning) is the easiest for the first times.. thats the best advice for a large partner.. good luck..
Also forgot to add the most important thing.. relax!! If you dont the msucles all tense up and it will be even more painful.
2006-12-10 09:48:58 · answer #2 · answered by Issym 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My husband is always trying to talk me into doing this. I just can't seem to talk myself into it. I tell him that it hurts me to have something coming out of me as big as him that I sure don't want nothing going in. I would tell hm to buy Novocaine.
2006-12-10 09:56:28 · answer #3 · answered by Donna 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
YOUR TAKING A BIG RISK. IF YOU DO IT THAT WAY YOU COULD TEAR THE TISSUE BETWEEM YOUR FRONT AND BACK AND BACTIRIA CAN LEAK INTO YOUR BODY. IF YOU DO DO IT USE LOTS OF LUBE AND TAKE IT SLO. IT IS A BIG RISK
2006-12-10 09:52:02 · answer #4 · answered by B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
start with "TOYS" about the size of your pinkie and work up. My wife and I love it because chance of pregnancy is ZERO and no wrong time of month.
2006-12-10 10:24:16 · answer #5 · answered by badmts 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well I have always thought that was an outgoing not an ingoing...It isnt the healthiest position but if you feel comfortable with it..You will be alright..Missy
2006-12-10 09:49:17 · answer #6 · answered by melissa_spear2005 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just tell him to take it slow_
2006-12-10 09:49:17 · answer #7 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probally take the risk.
2006-12-10 09:49:13 · answer #8 · answered by {.:*jugurl*:.} 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One Word Hun.......Lube!....and stretch work at slowly.....it can be done....just be careful and have fun........;-)
2006-12-10 09:49:14 · answer #9 · answered by scotdic 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you probably can
2006-12-10 09:48:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋