She tells me she's not doing much on Xmas day and I don't want to think of her being all alone.
2006-12-10 09:29:48 · 49 answers · asked by A True Gentleman 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have they met before? Are you still friends with her? Just ask your girlfriend if she would be comfortable with it and then go from there and use your own judgment.
2006-12-10 09:32:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think you are with the wrong girl, if you feel bad for her then I think there is a small part of you that still loves her especially if your still in contact, not sure how the current gf feels about that but I don't think she would appreciate sharing her Xmas lunch with her mans ex, I mean think about it? would you be ok with her ex tagging along? maybe he should and you could fix the ex's up! or stop seeing your current girlfriend and stop contacting your ex girlfriend and sort out who you want to be with? I am of course assuming that you dumped her and there are no kids involved. You haven't given us much to go on so I am afraid assumptions will all too easily be made. I really don't think it's a good idea anyway. She will sort herself out so just get on and enjoy your xmas with the one you love, which ever girl that may be!
2006-12-10 09:59:00 · answer #2 · answered by Smoochy Poochy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is sick and he needs to end the relationship. His ex is ok with this? Thats just sick. She must have really low self esteem to think its ok to be someone's sideline chick. She should know she deserves better than that. He's a jerk for allowing this behavior. Yet he doesn't want to hurt his current gf? Yeah right. How does he think she's gonna feel when she finds out the truth? She's gonna throw a party? I think not! She's gonna be pissed at the fact that she had no say so in this twisted affair. He's sexin the ex and his current....HELLOOOOO!!!! Can we say DISEASES and STD's waiting to happen? Yet the poor gf doesn't even know! Thats totally not fair to her she should have a say in wether she wants to deal with this relationship or not. He needs to come clean and quick. Since he wants to see and have sex with his ex so much then why not be with her? But atleast he needs to man up and tell his current gf whats up!
2016-05-23 02:57:13 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's very nice of you to think of your ex-girlfriend and make sure she doesn't feel all alone but I wouldn't do it if I were you. If you do it will tell her that you like her again and she will try to convince you that you should get back together. So unless you want to have a conversastion with her like that just tell her something like you and your current girlfriend want a private lunch together but maybe another day when you are not doing anything with your current girlfriend you could maybe have a coffee with her or something. That way it works out for everyone and everybody is happy.
2006-12-10 09:53:20 · answer #4 · answered by leged56 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see how you feel bad leaving your ex alone on Christmas, but would it be more awkward to put her in a position where she's seeing you (her former love) with your new interest? It really all depends on the relationship you have with your ex now. Maybe you're still really good friends and she wouldn't have a problem with it. Since you used to go out, I'm sure you know if it's a good idea or not. Also, what does your current girl friend think about it? You have to keep her feelings in mind too! Merry Christmas and best of luck!
2006-12-10 09:34:03 · answer #5 · answered by jennabeanski 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ok well it might be a little uncomfortable for her to see you with your new girlfriend. i mean i have been broke up from my last boyfriend for 5 years and i'm married now but its a little uncomfortable for me to still see him with someone else. as it is the same for him. i dont think i'd invite her to a dinner that you and your current girlfriend are having cause not only will in be uncomfortable for the ex imagine what will be going through the new girlfriends mind. It kind of sounds like to me if your concerned about her spending xmas alone that you still have alot of feelings for her. because honestly if you have already moved on you shouldnt care whats going on in your x's life. do you think there is a possibility you werent ready to move on from the ex. Are the feelings still there? sounds to me that they are. maybe you should think about who your really supposed to be with. good luck but sweety my advice to your question is no dont invite her it could be trouble for you and the new girl.
2006-12-10 09:40:07 · answer #6 · answered by tcameron_2004 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmm... should be a fun with Christmas for you! You sat in the middle with ex on one side, current gf on other, what a bundle of laughs that will be! THINK very carefully before you make a final decision. You sound a nice guy thinking of others, but think about your gf too.
2006-12-10 09:39:45 · answer #7 · answered by Velma 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they dont like each other they could end up fighting in front off you and that would be fun wouldnt it or even better they could get on realy well and get very drunk and decide to have lesbian sex in front of you, then invite you over to join then that would be your perfect christmas so wot ever happens would be fun so yea go for it invite your ex for christmas dinner.
2006-12-10 09:52:59 · answer #8 · answered by sportsmad84 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Errr... NO!
Imagine it the other way round.
Your GF invites some shmo who used to schtup her to Christmas lunch. That'd be a bundle of laughs I'm sure.
Good luck.
2006-12-10 10:17:20 · answer #9 · answered by chopchubes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. I would be really upset if my boyfriend invited his ex to spend xmas with us.
2006-12-10 10:49:55 · answer #10 · answered by cuteypie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you all get along, I don't see any problem! Make sure it's 100% okay with your present girlfriend first, after all it'sher feelings that count at the moment. If she agree's ... then I hope you have a wonderful meal!!
2006-12-10 09:47:49 · answer #11 · answered by lynne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋