im absolutley crushed..my boyfriend of a couple months just dumped me out of nowhere, for not really any good reason, yesterday. im extra hurt because i lost my virginity to him because i thought i could trust him..and last week, he told me he loved me..and a couple days ago he did..then yesterday he just DUMPED ME...said "were different people". I dont understand where i went wrong and im having a lot of trouble. im so heartbroken! then i hear things he said about me that he wanted a woman, not a girl..im crushed because i gave him everything..my parents are never around..i dont have that many friends or people to go to.. im thinking of just letting go...help..maybe some comforting words, stories, advice? anything to move past this..thanks. :(
2006-12-10 09:22:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i also found out that...he cheated on me..AND dumped me for another girl. please help..im at the end of my rope.
2006-12-10 12:09:06 · update #1
Please hang in there. You will find someone else. Your life is more important and valuable than one person in this world.
Chalk this up as a learning experience and look forward. You are strong and can make it.
2006-12-10 09:27:00 · answer #1 · answered by Stareyes 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
OMG girl!!!!! please please please do not think that suicide is your only way to feel better....i am right here with you because that EXACT same thing happened to me down to the last detail.....please trust me on this one, and i was absolutley heartbroken for 6 whole months!!! i could not get over him, i couldnt even look at any other guys, thought that i was never ever going to get past it.....but now i realize that i am better off without him, because he was just a dick trying to get in my pants, and well he got what he wanted and then TWO DAYS LATER he dumped me...hun, you deserve SO much better than that @ss.....realize the wrong he has done to you and know that you are WAY too good for him..thats the best way to get over it...GOOD LUCK
2006-12-10 17:38:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO! Suicide is so freaking horrid! That would be letting him win. For U to win, keep living life. Life is full of disappointments, but u just have to keep going! Get a new man, a better man...a man who won't dump you for no freaknig reason! Some-one who loves you so much that he would DIE for YOU! Please don't think morbid thoughts! He's ONE crappy guy! There are other guys in the world. "Guys are like parking spots. All the good ones are taken, and the rest are handicapped." He was DEFINITELY handicapped! Lol!
2006-12-10 17:29:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
sounds to me like he realized that he found a woman no a girl and he got scared, don't beat your self up,it broke up with you without a good reason and talk about you behind your back, then you are better off without he you will see that in time, try to keep busy, if you need some one to talk to my email in jnmalc@yahoo.com
2006-12-10 17:35:51 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This jerk dosen't even deserve your tears..he has used and abused your heart and mind..believe me there are people out there who care about others and their feelings,.. hang in there, this will pass . Time will heal the wounds this jerk has inflicted on you.. My heart goes out for you, be strong, all comes to those who wait..
2006-12-10 17:38:34 · answer #5 · answered by dr.pepper106 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hang in there sweety. It will hurt a lot. But your soul mate is out there waiting for you. Enjoy
2006-12-10 17:29:05 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
YOUR BOYFRIEND IS A PLAYER AND A JERK WHO USES GIRLS FOR SEX. I'M SORRY THIS HAPPENED TO YOU, BUT THERE ARE A LOT OF GUYS LIKE THIS. THERE ARE ALSO A LOT OF NICE GUYS TOO. I KNOW HE HURT YOU BAD, BUT DON'T GIVE UP. YOU WILL FIND SOMEONE VERY SPECIAL SOMETIME SOON. STAY CALM AND BE STRONG!
2006-12-10 17:29:16 · answer #7 · answered by Mark B 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
your worth more than that.
he's not worth throwing your life away over.
youll find someone who you can trust and
commit to you.
dont get upset over him, he obviously isnt that person.
2006-12-10 17:56:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think u should get some help and should have kept your legs closed so none of this would have ever happend.
2006-12-10 17:30:20 · answer #9 · answered by Alicia-brandon15 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋