So I dated this guy for 7 months. but we were still into each other and talking for over a year. i fell in love with him but he has told me he didnt love me. he got a new girlfriend now and they have been dating for about 2 months. however, he says he loves HER but he has cheated on her twice already, with me. This was the only time EVER he has cheated on a gf and I know for a fact he never did on me or in the past. He also told his gf that he cheated the first time, he learned his lesson and stopped talkin to me. A week later, he flirts with me again and cheats for the 2nd time. then we stopped talkin for about 2 weeks cuz he said he didnt want to hurt her anymore. NOWWW, He flirts with me everyday to this day even and gets mad if I don't flirt back. I tell him not to flirt with me, but he still does and its his "nature" to. But, he says he loves HER. Do you think he does? help. confused.
2006-12-10 09:16:58 · 10 answers · asked by luv2dance 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should get away from this guy. If he really cares about you, then he would/will leave her and find you, but right now it sounds like he's using you because he knows that you'll always be there. If he doesn't really care about you then you're hurting yourself more by being around him.
2006-12-10 09:22:11 · answer #1 · answered by missknightride 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dr. Phil Says: "He loves her not."
I Say: "He is a piece of crap and needs an enormous beating for being such a sleezy piece of garbage."
Preacher Bob Says: "May God's mercy and love be upon this very sick and twisted individual, hopefully he shall find the light that is Jesus Christ and be forever saved."
I Say: "Preacher Bob, just shut up and pray for his sick mind if thats what you think you need to do, and forget the rest of it."
GET AS FAR AWAY FROM THIS ZERO AS YOU CAN
2006-12-10 17:23:49 · answer #2 · answered by do_sctc145 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's using you for his fun, stop talking to him man hes bad news, tell him to grow up and if he loves his gf he'll be more loyal to her. Your just the guinea pig in his little game. He doesnt love you nor will he. And yes, its possible for him to flirt with you and still love her.
2006-12-10 17:21:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's doing that to this girl then he has the potential to do it to you at anytime. I suggest that you remind him that he has a girlfriend and that you don't want to flirt with him. If he still does that, just quit talking to him.
2006-12-10 17:22:32 · answer #4 · answered by Trinity Balthazar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he loves the chase sweet heart,and he wants to keep you hagging on for him if he feels like cheating.as far as never cheating before,thats not likely,i;m reasonably sure this wasnt his first time.it goes back to the old saying,how do you know a man is lieing to you? his lips are moving!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-10 17:22:12 · answer #5 · answered by jerrold.fisher@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may lover her but he's still a cheat and you are a , well you know what you are.
2006-12-10 17:20:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i think he is doing this to get you. let him go don't answer or flirt back he will get the msg.
2006-12-10 17:23:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The jerk wants his kate and edith too.. tell him to kiss off...
2006-12-10 17:20:14 · answer #8 · answered by dr.pepper106 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLAYER(no-offense) but he needs to make up his mind and you should totally tell him to!!
2006-12-10 17:21:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes confused.. he, i guess, loves you ... but for whatever reason hes staying with the other girl
2006-12-10 17:19:48 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. Bobby D - The Angels Fan 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋