There is a guy that I really like. On Thanksgiving he came over and we made out. Now he is constantly persisting that it was only because he was drunk. I am so mad but I think I still have feelings for him. What do I do???
2006-12-10 09:13:50 · 8 answers · asked by Ali B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's understandable that both of you had a nice time on Thanksgiving with each other. Unfortunately, he's not that interested in you. He doesn't feel the way you do about him.
For him, it was just a good time and a nice way to celebrate a holiday. For you, you saw it as more than a 1 night stand. You wanted to build something from that experience.
The bottom line is that if he is making EXCUSES (saying he was drunk and that is why he made out with you), Do yourself a service and run fast away from him. He is not worth your time and not worthy of spending your emotions on him. Find a guy that will own up to their actions.
Being drunk is never an acceptable reason. You wan to find some one who respects you enough to not play games with you. Also, don't stay mad, it isn't doing anything to make your day better.
Put a smile on your face and realize that you have walked away from a careless man. Wow, the nightmare that this guy will bring to whoever is not as bright as you to stay away from him. You'll be glad it isn't you.
2006-12-10 09:29:36 · answer #1 · answered by im_feeling_gr8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go . He used you for the night. It was wrong but you can't take it back but you can learn from it. Move on and get on with your life. He is a looser and you don't need that in your life. I mean you two are not even an item yet and he is hurting you so just think about if you let things go further what he will do.
2006-12-10 17:19:45 · answer #2 · answered by anne04char 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go, hon! Drunks like him are two a penny, and you'll only cheapen yourself by insisting that there is something more! Go find a good guy and brighten your life hon, you don't need grief like him!
2006-12-10 17:23:25 · answer #3 · answered by wheeliebin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him go, if he comes back great and if not it was never meant to be. truth comes out when alcohol is a factor some people just can't handle the truth. give it time.
2006-12-10 17:17:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If thats how he feels then you dont want to keep bringing it up.. it'll make you look pathetic and desperate and you dont want that.. so your only option is to move on and leave him alone..or just be friends...
2006-12-10 17:20:22 · answer #5 · answered by Felicia E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it. He was drunk, he told you, you should thank him for being honest with you.
2006-12-10 17:16:30 · answer #6 · answered by interpreters_are_hot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know i wasnt there
2006-12-10 17:16:30 · answer #7 · answered by yours truly 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dump him he's an *** hole
2006-12-10 17:18:58 · answer #8 · answered by arthur3home 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋