Ok. We went out last Sunday (a week from today) and he seemed to be having fun; he kept smiling and would push into me and bump me when we were walking and stuff (oh yea does anyone know what that meant, too?) He told me he would talk to me later that night and he didn't call and didn't call so I figured he wasn't interested. He ended up calling Thursday night though and asked if I thought Sunday was fun and I said yes. Then, he asked me what I thought about him and I said I thought he was pretty cute. I asked him what he thought about me and he said that he thought I was pretty hott. At the end of the conversation he said he would talk to me later. It's been 3 days and I figured he would call but he hasn't. But, last time it took him a few days to call, though. Do you think this could go anywhere or what are you opinons?
2006-12-10 09:10:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would definitely give it time. So many guys don't like to rush into a relationship. Besides, the more he picks up that you may want something more with him, probably the further he will back away from you. Guys just are that way.
Just keep busy, try not to think of him as often as you do, and if he wants to call, he will eventually call. If he doesn't call you, then you really have not lost anything.
Just give him his time, so that he can think of you, and wonder what you are doing. Turn the whole thing around, and make him want you and wonder about you. Girls can do that. You just have to play the game. The more you play their game, the better you will get at it, and before you know it, these guys will be flocking toward you!
Try it!!!! Do it!!!!! Don't give up!!!!!
It worked for me! Good luck!
2006-12-10 09:17:35 · answer #1 · answered by peekie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are anxious that's all. Why don't you just call him instead waiting for him to call? Or if you don't want to call him why don't you text him and say "just saying hello." Or, "hey let me know when you'd like to go out again".
Look, he might have his rules in regard to how long he should wait before he calls a girl back. From what you wrote, I do see some classical dating rules that he is going by according to what you have indicated his conduct is.
I've found that I don't have time for games when it comes to dating. If I want to see a guy again... I wait for him to call... if he doesn't call then I text him or call him. It doesn't make you seem desperate if you call him at least once. It just makes you seem interested. That's all. But only text or call once. One phone call, e-mail or text msg should tell you him that you are putting some effort into hopefully seeing him again. Don't call, text, or e-mail more than one time.
Men say exactly what they mean... so when he said that he thought you were hot, and that he had a good time. That is exactly what he meant. Don't read over-analyze his comments too much. It'll just make you anxious and drive you crazy!!
So, play it cool. Take some initiative at least one time and see what happens. Maybe he's waiting for you to call. This is not the 50's when dating was old-fashioned in regard to what and how the woman should act. Take some initative... but only do it once. Whatever mode of communication you think he will effectively get... then do that. The golden rule is three days that a guy will wait to call. So, he should call on the fourth day, But you know what? Just call yourself okay?
You'll be fine. This guy totally digs you... just take some initiative.
Gotta run and good luck!
Ocean
2006-12-10 09:22:17 · answer #2 · answered by Ocean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's doing what most men do. He's not calling you because he doesn't want to seem too interested. Why don't you just call him and stop him from playing these games? That's always an option. You don't have to wait on him you know?
2006-12-10 09:13:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just playing hard to get. If he sounds too interested, it makes the relationship sound a whole lot boring...So just relax, from your first date it seems he likes you. He will call you soon enough.
2006-12-10 09:17:30 · answer #4 · answered by Trinity Balthazar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him and ask if every thing is OK with him and try not to expect much from him b/c it has been 3 day it won't take that long for him to call you if he is interested.............sounds like he is not interested and player
2006-12-10 09:17:59 · answer #5 · answered by mimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i know from being a guy,...that when i take a lady out,...i always call her and thank her and then i wait to see if she will call me,...of course that is just me,...but i am always afraid if i call her to much i may be bothering her,...and i don't want to be a guy like that,...
2006-12-10 09:17:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
weel my oppinion is that if he really wanted to see you or talk to you then he would have called you back or something i/d/k but i fou like him then go for it then okay !!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-10 09:15:57 · answer #7 · answered by mandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u stupid? the obvious answer is yes...unless he is using you
does he have a chronic history of using girls?
2006-12-10 09:13:07 · answer #8 · answered by Rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps he is having tea with the queen
2006-12-10 09:11:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you call him?
2006-12-10 09:14:40 · answer #10 · answered by Tigerlillie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋