I like this guy so so so so much but.....he's in arkansas I've met him.
he's really cute and he's just like me and I know he likes me but I think that the distance is tearing us apart and it's upsetting me a lot and I was hoping some one out there could tell me if I should break up with him and just be friends or if I should wait this out and hope that he moves close soon???
anything will help I can't think at all right now so plz. thanks to everybody that helps
2006-12-10 09:06:38 · 7 answers · asked by Pyro 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should just be friends for now b/c if you are in a relationship w/ him right now you guys might tear apart and then not talk to each other! If you are friends then you guys probably wouldn't fight and you could still be close to him. Then if he does move closer then go for the relationship. But you wouldn't want to lose him forever would you?
♥ Sportnut
2006-12-10 09:12:49 · answer #1 · answered by Taylor*Leigh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm also in a long distance relationship, and have dealt with this problem before. I think you should really talk to him about it, let him know what you are feeling. Because he may be feeling the same and you not even know it. See if it is possible for you two, to make dates when so that one of you can travel to see each other. Even if it is just for a day or so it could help. I stay in city Chicago and my girl was in Evansville Indiana... It take 11 hours on the greyhound just to go for a day and come back. Thankfully she moved a bit closer that I am able to travel only a 3 hours drive away. I think you should really talk to him........ good luck
2006-12-10 17:24:21 · answer #2 · answered by ill_state00 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to him about it and try it for at least a little bit. If he doesn't get serious and move closer to you then I would just call it off. Long distance relationships are hard and alot of them don't make it. There's no point in dragging out the heartache if you don't need to. Either way, Good Luck.
2006-12-10 17:14:00 · answer #3 · answered by Danelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this may feel painful, but realistically, the two of you should remain friends who also date others. If he ever does move your way, or vice versa, and it was meant to be, it will.
I believe, the more boys you meet, possibly date, the more opportunities to find traits and characteristics you are seeking in a long-term partner. It's through practice, that we learn.
Having said this, this does not involve sexual relations in any way.
2006-12-10 17:17:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you really love him you shouldnt let this get between you and if he really loves you hes not going to let either now if you guys wanted to date other people then you should talk about that and be sure that in the long run its not going to hurt your relationship just talk it out and be sure to tell him how your feeling and decide together what you should do
i hope things work out for you good luck in your decision
2006-12-10 17:20:55 · answer #5 · answered by advise_gal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear 1992,
If you have a Bible turn to Psalm 73 and start reading. I know that this willl help you because it is God's word.
2006-12-10 17:10:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it up and find a close by boyfriend.
2006-12-10 17:09:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋