What should I say to him?

Question

Is he going to try again?wrong or right?was i horrible 4 doing this?cuz thats how i feel This boy I like likes me back.He asked if i had a cellphone,i nodded my head,then he asked if i had a bf and if i wanted one and i shrugged and shook my head. :( He asked for my number.I just looked away and didn't respond~ he was like yes or no?what did i do.I looked into his eyes and then looked away .Such an idiot i am.So when the bell rang he just left .I want to go out with him sssooooo bad but hes so loud,popular and smart too,way smart.I'm so shy,quiet,unpopular and loserish. What will other people say about us?I think a whole bunch of girls in the school like him too. What do i do?he knows that im really really shy and quiet.should i just try talking to him or what? should i just be like hi(his name) on monday when i c him in class?I'm scared to go to school and see him scared out of my mind.....I know that I'm just going to look at him and say nothing :( i messed up BAD.will he be angry?

Should I say "hey(his name) the bell rang and i didn't get to give this to you(and i give him my #)Sorry"

Answer 1

He is obviously interested in you, so go and talk to him!! He probably just felt awkward with you standing there so silent.

Answer 2

I'll try and answer ths in the best way that i can, ok?

Right first of all i dont think you were horrible for doing this, you didn't intend to be horrible, i just think you got a little bit scared when you had that answer to make "yes or no", it can be abit of a scary decision to make and im sure you're not the only person who's done something like this.

You probably just got stumped when he asked you 'whether you had a b/f" because that shows that there is advanced intrest if ya know what i mean.

If he hadn't have asked whether you had a b/f you'd have given him your number and left it at that, but because he asked something slightly more personal/intimate you got a little bit nervous/embarrased (something like that?) and thats why you walked away.

I wouldn't say that your'e an idiot, you might just be abit naive in the situation. You've said that you're abit shy, quiet and unpopular but some people see themsleves as unpopular just because of the fact they dont like to regard themselves as popular.

It seems that this boy is quite nice and he obviously ticks all the boxes for you if you had the hots for this boy 2 begin with. Maybe its the fact he unexpectandly asked you those questions that got you abit nervous.

I wouldn't be worried/concerned about the fact that you and this boy arn't exactly the same, there are lots of couples of all ages that are different, so why should people look down on you for this.

I think that you should go and speak to him and just say sorry for walking away from him, because you like this guy and from your perspective it would be a shame to possibly lose out on the opportunity of your r/ship going further. Just be confident in yourself, if the boy u/stands that youre shy he may possibly u/stand why you walked away. You're know what to say when you see him.

Just talk to him, what harm can it do?

Answer 3

No you are not a loser. You just don't realize your potential yet. All the girls in my high school class who were such hot stuff turned out horrible.Hmmm ...your shy so I wouldn't do it in a class because you are in a class with other people around it my not go your way. Especially if you hurt his feelings a little bit. Maybe I would stop him after school and give him a note how you feel and how you feel about him and does he feel the same about you?Don't come off though that you love him or nothing. Just that you like somethings about him. Don't worry what other girls think? D Add your number, so you can continue the conversation if he wanted to finish the conversation. Good Luck girl.

Answer 4

If he's angry about that, stay away from him!
Write your # on a piece of paper, tell him you'd like to hear from him, smile and walk away. Let him make the next move. Try not to sit by the phone waiting, If he doesn't call hold your head up and be proud of who you are honey, You are NOT a loser! The very first thing you need is to work on your self esteem! He would be lucky to have you for a girlfriend!

Answer 5

Well don't worry about it first of all ... there are many other people who would do the exact same thing. Your suggestion in the additional details is exactly what I would do if I were you! I am sure he will understand and if he doesn't then he isn't the type of boy you want to go out with anyways.


Well I hoped I helped .. and Good Luck! I am sure you will get him!

Answer 6

tell him your sorry for the other day but your shy and you like him and it makes you nerves around him... or just walk up to him and give him a note with your number in it and tell him to call you. as far as other people go dont worry about what other people say or think b/c it really doesnt matter in the end.

Answer 7

Don't worry about, I am shy too and I know how you feel. If he had the courage to come up to you, he has to be into you, so don't feel so self-concious. I know it might be hard, but just try to talk to him and be nice. He might forget about the incident if he knows you are shy and are now trying to make an effort.

Answer 8

well have u talked 2 him much be4? dont be afraid 2 talk 2 him, thats how u can get 2 no each other...then u go out

Answer 9

You just got scared and didn't know what to say. its okay-ive been there, done that.

but yeah you should go up to him and start a conversation and be like hey do u still want my number? and see what he says.

thats what i would do.! =] hope it helps.

Answer 10

you should be glad that this boy is attracted to you like they say opposites attract, n it doesn't matter wat otha gurls think they just would hate cuz its not them so take the chance wit him n don let him do u ova either so donget to drowned in his thing(style)