My boyfriend and I have been going out together for 5 yrs. He makes me feel frustrated by telling bad things about me and always telling me to shut up. I still have feelings for him though...
2006-12-10 08:42:11 · 12 answers · asked by om 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh my god.. it is definetly time to let go.. dont put up with that sh!t.. how can you let someone talk to you that way.. and treat u like that? no! i say you dump him.. if he makes you feel that way its better to let go.. ya i understand that u have been together for a while and u still have feelings for him but, you need to let him go.. this could get even worse.. if not then talk to him about how you feel.. maybe he is going through some rough times.. let him know how u feel and if hes still being a dick then i think u should end it..
good luck
2006-12-10 08:46:34 · answer #1 · answered by Yhpargotohp 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, i have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. I will never know what you are feeling or what your whole relationship is about. But, I can tell you this..No woman should ever have to be disrepected by someone who supposedly loves you. I think when it boils down to respect.. you need to ditch him before you really end up getting hurt. These verbal things are a form of abuse and I think that it is high time to say goodbye and move on to bigger and better things.
Good Luck and Take Care.
2006-12-10 08:52:12 · answer #2 · answered by Renita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is saying bad things about u and telling you 2 shut up, that just isnt right. But if u still have feelings 4 him, u should talk to him about your problem. If his reaction tells u that he thinks everything u told him was stupid, then it really just isnt meant to be
2006-12-10 08:46:27 · answer #3 · answered by ***KellBell*** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time to move on. If he is not thinking of you as the best part of his life, then you need to be looking for someone who will have that opinion of you. Life is too short to waste time on a relationship that you are not happy in. All his good qualities are out there in someone else as well, so you are not losing anything.
2006-12-10 08:47:33 · answer #4 · answered by Joe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone! He makes you feel frusterated and he disrepects you by telling you to shut up, then those are all warning signs to get out. Stay friends but don't become intimate with him any longer.
2006-12-10 08:56:36 · answer #5 · answered by Wonderwoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look the way I see it you have two options :
1) Put up with his bullshit.
2) dump him.
And I'd go with 2,coz u'r a princess who's missing a crown at the moment.
Good luck! :)
2006-12-10 08:47:44 · answer #6 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if you have to ask yourself this quetion, then you know it's time to leave him.
Sure, it's going to be hard.. Things like this aren't easy, especially when you have a few years invested into someone. But things change, people change, and now's your chance to move on..
Good luck.
2006-12-10 08:51:34 · answer #7 · answered by [we're all mad here] 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump the @sshole, girl!!!!! you deserve better than someone who is going to disrespect you like that and intentionally put you down. id say the time to break up is now. good luck
2006-12-10 08:45:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You deserve better than that, you should break things off. And if he really cares, maybe he'll change his ways.
2006-12-10 08:46:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 year it is too long, try to get some space from him and do your thing... confront him,
2006-12-10 08:46:16 · answer #10 · answered by rr t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋