HELP! I have thought about for about a year know and i'll pay for it all she has to do is drive me and sign the form!!!
Also anyone have it done does it hurt??
2006-12-10 08:41:28 · 17 answers · asked by brianna<3 4 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body ➔ Tattoos
You don't tell her. You wait till you are 18 and then go get one on your own.
2006-12-10 08:48:58 · answer #1 · answered by mizbehavingirl 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Just wait until you are 18 and get it done yourself. If your mother doesn't want you to have it you should respect her wishes. Its not the price or the fact that 'all she has to do is sign the papers'. Just wait, you'll be happier and more excited about it if you do.
Don't get it done behind her back and don't try to hide it. Getting it done though she's asked you not to will cause problems with her trust for you and your relationship will be awkward...trust me, I've been there, its not fun. Hiding a piercing will cause you to make poor choices with cleaning and aftercare and you will probably wind up with an infection or otherwise messed up piercing.
However, tell her that you want one and keep your reasoning responsible and mature. Don't yell at her, don't tell her she's being unfair or stupid. Research your piercing on www.bmezine.com and show her that its safe and that you're mature enough to handle something like this.
Also...all piercings hurt and that pain varies from person to person. No one can tell you how bad it will hurt you, everyone here will speak only for themselves.
2006-12-11 04:14:01 · answer #2 · answered by 4eyed zombie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brianna, you need to sit down with your Mom and just talk. Not yell or scream your wants but sit down and just talk. As a matter of fact, take her out for a coffee at a book store. As your sitting there talking, tell her that you want to talk to her seriously. And that you really would like to have this piercing. She will automatically say, NO! But, don't jump off the handle yourself. Maintain composure and say, Mom I love you and I respect you but please, can you hear me out for just a few minutes, then you can speak ok. Then go on and tell her the reasons why you want it. Talk to her about taking you around to different piercers and checking out their policy and technique on cleanliness. Ask your Mom what did she do as a girl that was different from her Mom. That made her Mom think that she was rebelling or being different. Try to find a common ground with your Mom. Maybe she will let you do it if you wait awhile. Make some agreement that sure you will wait, you'll keep your grades up, you will clean your room, whatever it is be willing to sacrifice something in order to get what you want if you know what I mean. I say this because my son and I worked out an agreement so he could have his first tat before 18 and piercing. Now, he is in college, and the piercings are gone, but he still has his tats, has added to them but, people change as they grow up so you may want to keep this in mind when you talk to your Mom. And as for the hurt, well, think of it this way your having someone probe a sharp instrument into your flesh above your eye. Yeah, its gonna hurt no if's and's or but's about it.
2006-12-10 09:00:43 · answer #3 · answered by ncamedtech 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My question to you is why the piercing ?
Why put a piece of steel in you forehead ?
I think it detracts from the rest of your face.
I think people will look at the piercing before they look at you.
I do.
It is automatic.
It is a point of reference, and catches the eye first.
Worse then brow piercing is nose piercing.
Looks like a booger on a nose, especially the inside stud.
Just lay the guys with the piercings and be a natural beauty.
Also.
Wait until you are out from under your parents rule and then go nuts mutilating your body on purpose.
2006-12-10 08:56:01 · answer #4 · answered by r_e_a_l_miles 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well i have the same situation only i want my lip peirced and i would just get it done and the worse thing she could do is make u take it out but then u can just go back whne ur 18
2006-12-10 12:08:46 · answer #5 · answered by me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is ugly myself, why put metal in your face? They say wait until your 18 because a lot of teens say they want something but a few years down the line they change their mind. Anyways if your mom wont sign you are SOL until you are 18.
2006-12-10 08:54:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
all you have to do is compromise. parents hate giving in but they still feel like they are winners if they come to a comprimise. tell her its what you really want and that you know she dosn't like it. ask her what are the terms of the agreement and after she lays down the laws. then all you have to do is decide how bad you want this peircing and wether it is worth whatever impossible task mum has set you. if she wont agree to a comprimise forge the signature and do it anyway. she wont be happy but she cant stay mad at you forever, can she.
2006-12-10 09:47:23 · answer #7 · answered by *juicyjellybean* 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Good luck with that.
I had been asking for a lip peircing for eight years and my parents still said no. I ended up doing it myself (bad idea) and then getting it redone when I turned18.
2006-12-10 12:23:10 · answer #8 · answered by anonymous 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't get one. My daughter got one and she took it out after it was supposed to be healed , to change the ring, and it closed up immediately. Now she has a really ugly pit there.
2006-12-10 10:48:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to have to go with your mom on this one.
Sorry, but I think eyebrow rings just look trashy on girls. And I don't like them on guys for that matter, either.
2006-12-11 02:36:56 · answer #10 · answered by *MissNic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋