My ex and i are still pretty good friends and now he has a new girlfriend. I think he is avoiding me because of her. I think she might have told him not to talk to me. I dont even know her!!! What should i do!!!!!
2006-12-10 08:38:11 · 14 answers · asked by heavy_metal_freak113 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont confront him right away. First let him get comfortable with having a ex as a friend AND having a girlfriend. When you do confront him, ask him who she is. For all you know you two could have been enemies at one time.
2006-12-10 08:47:21 · answer #1 · answered by marianne_whitehead 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you still have strong feelings for him. And if I were his girlfriend, and perceived that too, I would've ask him the same thing. Maybe you should go to him and look for an explanation in a low and calm way. If he just blows you out, then move on! There is a reason why both of you are not together right? Look for someone else.
2006-12-10 16:41:18 · answer #2 · answered by Marie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well of course she is going to feel threatened by you...she doesnt want to think that you could take him back....so there is two things u could do..act like u dont care and be happy for your eexxx..orrrr....dont let that controlling new gf of his do that and fight back...i mean come on u have history with this guy and there is no written rule that says u have to hate nad can never talk to your ex boyfriend..you can bring up old memories when u see him or to not be to obvious wish him a merry christmas and just be sweet..very sweet...the sweeter u are the worse she looks making your ex realize what he had with you..i hope i helped
2006-12-10 16:46:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look dear you already called your ex. now he has a girl friend, it means that he moved on.
Ask your self if you have a new boy friend, won't he be jealous to see you with your ex calling him your best friend?
i had a good friend but he is a boy so i couldn't go on because we both got engaged to two other people. His fiance was jealous and so as mine. according to this we agreed to move on our lives and remember each others. and so we do.
i know that finding a good friend is hard but please don't put your self in a position to ruin his relationship because if it happens he won't remember you as a good friend any more
try not to go to the same places that you both used to hang out together, try to get over it
2006-12-10 16:53:22 · answer #4 · answered by Princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the two of you are still friends then i would give him a call and ask him whats going on.see what he has to say, if it is because of his new girl friend then tell him that you don't appreciate him doing this but that if this is how its going to be. then so be it.or after talking to him, go to this new girlfriend and reassure her that the two of you are just friends and try to become her friend too.
2006-12-10 16:43:14 · answer #5 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOTHING! Get on with your life and have a good time with your friends. Make plans to do something fun to keep your mind off of them!
2006-12-10 16:40:50 · answer #6 · answered by oracle1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave it. if you intrude in their relationship then youre gonna break them up with your friendship thing. of course any girl will intimidated by an ex. give them time to feel safe in their relationship first before you start talking about that issue.
2006-12-10 16:42:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just be straight with the both of them together in person and tell her that he and you are just friends and would like to keep it that way and that your not gona come in between them.
2006-12-10 16:40:38 · answer #8 · answered by calcalmr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on
2006-12-10 16:42:17 · answer #9 · answered by James 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
still chat 2 him...lol , but like if he really likes her he'll stop chating 2 ya and u jus av to live with it i guess
2006-12-10 16:41:23 · answer #10 · answered by Sweety 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋