For some reason I just don't enjoy life anymore. When I go out with friends and my girlfriend and stuff I just don't enjoy being with them for some reason anymore. Lately I've been avoiding talking to my friends on the phone and not hanging out with them outside school. I know they care about me alot too, and love being with me. I know my family cares about me.
Life has just lost its touch with me, nothing is enjoyable anymore. I know I'm not gonna get far in life either I've been failing school since 7th grade, in my sophmore year of high school now, I'm not gonna make it to college, I'm gonna end up poor and a crappy life working 2 jobs everyday like my father. I have no dreams in life. Nothing is fun anymore. I've been thinking about killing myself for the past 2 months now. Maybe someone else for excitement, something new to happen in my life. I feel like I'm going insane too.
I don't know what's wrong with me...
2006-12-10 08:32:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
My parents don't care if i'm depressed either, i was suicidal before, my moms like "O get over it, you aren't missing school tomorrow".
They won't let me seek professional help either because they think i'll get taken away or something
2006-12-10 08:47:41 · update #1
Hey!
1st FORCE yourself to spend the time with your friends, then go and talk to your teachers.. now is the PERFECT time to turn your life around and you can go to college if you want to.. it will take a lot of work but it is possible. then you wont be how you see yourself now.. you might do something you love. theres another thing.. take a passion, something you love doing and make a life out of it for yourself. you dont have to be like your dad. then go talk to your school counselor (probably assgined to you) tell her you don't see yourself making it anywhere and that your just not happy. if you tell her you have been thinking of killing yourself then your parents will have to get involved.. if you want that tell her.. but im guessing you dont.
If the feelings to kill yourself persist go and tell a teacher or someone who you trust.. they can get you the apprioate help. then dont think of yourself as depressed. if you think that way you will make yourself subconsicously more that way. so think of yourself as a little down in the blues but think that you can come back.
also maybe talk to your doctor if you think its not going to ever go away.. and spend some time out in the sun and all... even if it is cold!!!
2006-12-10 08:40:22 · answer #1 · answered by KT 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When I was a sophomore in high school I felt the same way. I was really stressed and I didn't really know where my life was going. Now I'm happily married and I realize that I really do have a wonderful life ahead of me. Good things will happen in your life that you can't even imagine right now. Even though it's hard now, it's worth it to stick it out and see what happens. Looking back on it, I am so glad that I didn't go through with suicide because I would have missed out on so much.
You should talk to someone you trust about how you're feeling, whether that's your parents, another relative, a good friend, or even a school counselor. If school is worrying you a lot, your counselor might be able to help arrange tutoring for you to relieve some of that stress.
I know this might sound really cliche, but life has ups and downs, and you have to make it through the really hard times so you can appreciate the really good ones. That said, if you're really depressed you might benefit from counseling or even medication. You should be aware that antidepressants can increase suicidal feelings, especially in teenagers (which is what happened to me). If you see a doctor, be sure to talk to them about this concern and figure out a way to deal with it.
You really should talk to someone about this so you can get the help you need.
Best wishes!
2006-12-10 16:47:52 · answer #2 · answered by cg17 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh sweetheart, you ae depressed. I c where ur coming from and where ur about to go. Spiritual or not, don't let the devil sit here and lie to you day in and day out.You are special and you are worth so much! You were put on this earth to enjoy life. As far as you failing, get some help in school. Don't give up! I know it looks bad now, and yeah I don't know you, but I have complete faith that you will be somebody great; all you need is some help. I am going to be praying for you, but in the meantime, pray for yourself, believe in yourself, and get some help. A counselor/psychologist is a good start. A minister/pastor would be an even better start.
God Bless!
2006-12-10 16:41:12 · answer #3 · answered by Just Dance 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not gonna make it to college?... I'm gonna end up poor and a crappy life working 2 jobs everyday like my father?....I have no dreams in life.
Wrong Answer. Try Again.
There is no one in this world like you and I dare say that if you focus on your studies by the time you are thirty you would realize that dreams do come through....
You probably don't like being around your friends because you feel that they feel the way about you as you feel about yourself.
Don't kill yourself. Become a Nerd: Use this and the next school year to study, to find yourself, create your dreams.....Fact is if you dramatically increase your grades you may even receive a scholorship. If he can why can't you?...
Ever heard a joke the first time and didn't get it and when you heard it the second time its the funniest thing?...Try again; that's all it takes.
2006-12-10 16:42:49 · answer #4 · answered by Prudent World 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh my God, everything you have written, I feel exactly too, I promise you 100% honest. I don't want to go out anywhere, I'm hating life and myself especially. I'm finding myself quick to anger. I have thought about suicide...but it does scare me a little. Please take care of yourself, love yourself, don't feel you need to be with people you really don't like. You are a smart, loving person. Even if you have faults and have done or are doing pretty bad things. Just keep real to yourself. Be head strong. I know life can really bring down the horse, my head feels like it's going to explode too almost all the time. Just enjoy being by your self for now. Perhaps make alot of changes. Life is about change any ways. Nothing is forever be it love in this life, be it money, be it happiness, be it sex, anything. Just love yourself and no body else. All the best.. and do not committ suicide, suicide is not worth it, you'll only become a statistic. My name is Nick, If you feel alone just email, I'll activate email communications, take care, best of happiness.
2006-12-10 16:44:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
EVERYTHING WILL TURN OUT GREAT FOR YOU, I HAVE FELT LIKE THIS B-4 AND THEN I MET THE LOVE OF MY LIFE, MAYBE YOU CAN TRY TO FOCUS ON ALL THE GOOD THINGS THAT HAS HAPPENED IN YOUR LIFE INSTEAD OF ALL THE BAD, KNOWONE IS PERFECT, I HAVE A SON THAT WAS FAILING IN SCHOOL, AND NOW HE IS DOING GREAT, HE SEEMS TO STAY IN TROUBLE ABOUT SOMETHING, BUT HE IS STILL MY SON AND I LOVE HIM DEARLY, HE ALWAYS SAYS HE WILL NEVER GO TO COLLEGE, BUT I WILL TELL YOU THE SAME AS I TELL HIM , YOU CAN DO ANYTHING YOU SET YOUR MIND TO, YOU WILL ALWAYS MAKE MISTAKES BUT ALWAYS REMEMBER IF YOU NEVER MAKE MISTAKES YOU WILL NEVER LEARN ANYTHING, YOU HAVE TO MAKE MISTAKES TO LEARN. AND SO WHAT IF YOU HAVE TO WORK 2 JOBS WHEN YOU GET OLDER, THERE ARE ALOT OF PEOPLE THAT DO, I AM ONE OF THEM, BUT I WORK 2 JOBS SO I CAN GET MORE FOR MY FAMILY, WE COULD MAKE IT ON ONE JOB BUT I WANT MORE FOR MY FAMILY. YOU THINK ABOUT WHAT ALL YOU HAVE SAID, YOU ARE A SMART KID, MAYBE YOU ARE GROWING UP AND THATS WHY YOU DO NOT ENJOY HANGING OUT WITH YOUR FRIENDS ANY MORE. TRY GETTING A JOB THEN YOUR MIND WILL BE FOCUSED ON THAT.
2006-12-10 16:43:39 · answer #6 · answered by debbie k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need professional help that none of us can give you. Seek council immediately by either a Psychiatrist or someone quallified in that field. Good luck and God bless you.
2006-12-10 16:38:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are both suicidal and depressed. Don't give up, there is hope to get through this. Talk to your parents about what you are going through and seeing a good counselor that can help you through this. Depression is treatable, there is hope!
2006-12-10 16:44:15 · answer #8 · answered by Kotori Shizukesa 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
http://sensitive-psychoworld.blogspot.com/
2006-12-10 20:06:47 · answer #9 · answered by LIz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋