she was dreaming ..we don't stay togather..only now and then ..I stay at hers or she at mines ..depends how we feel
..but on three separate occasions whilst dreaming she called out a guys name ..not in a loving manner or in a frenzy manner ..just mantioned the same name on three occasions in two months..when i tell her in the morning ..she dosen;t remember the dream ..and she crys and says she don't know anyone with the name of tony ..she says it could be a girl named tonne who was her friend in high school ..no I wont buy that ..i told her once more ..and if she happens to be in my apartment she is going out ..
and if wont be in the morning ...
2006-12-10 07:51:54 · 34 answers · asked by JJ 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is she telling the truth or lying to me???????
2006-12-10 07:54:40 · update #1
come on it happend THREE times NOT in the same dream ..on separate occasions..
WHY,, TONY every time ..why not tom ,,dick ..or harry
2006-12-10 08:15:33 · update #2
Chill out !!! Good grief she was asleep, you realise that you sound like a completely unreasonable guy, don't you! ?? She has no control over what she dreams, it could be a nightmare even!! Leave it alone and be thankful she is with you! Although if she has any sense she should be wondering why... you sound cruel....she should move on... what are you doing awake any way? Watching her sleep? Maybe YOU dreamt she did it.... Fair enough if she calls out the name when you are giving her an orgasm....then you worry....
2006-12-10 08:05:36 · answer #1 · answered by Susie Drew 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe her dream is warning her of you and the person warning her is Elvis. Dreams tell us the future and the past. Sometimes they are guides for us, and other times they are just memories all jumbled together. Get a life - if you are that insecure she deserves much better than you. She should kick you to the curb. This is what happens when you do things in the wrong order. Sleeping together should come after you have made a promise and sincere committment to each other than means forever - not maybe a year or less or a week or two.
2006-12-10 08:17:06 · answer #2 · answered by vic 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you're being too harsh on her if you're going to kick her out all because of a DREAM.
How do you know FOR SURE that the Tony she mentions is someone she dated in the past? And even if she did dated a Tony, and she's not telling you, maybe it's not because she still has feelings for him still and wants him back, maybe it's because some sort of upsetting incident that has happened and she doesn't want to talk about it.
Or maybe she is telling the truth, the Tony she's dreaming about is no one you should be worrying and making a big fuss over it.
2006-12-10 07:58:00 · answer #3 · answered by Livia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude its not that serious, now if she calls out Tony; when you guys are having sex; then there is something to be angry about. You dream about all kinds of stuff when you are asleep. Someone at work could have been talking about when they were in High School. So she could have been thinking about that during the day and it play out through her dreams and ended out calling tony in her sleep. Relax.
2006-12-10 08:01:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ottoman, dreams are weird and wonderful things. Do you remember all your dreams. Sometimes people say things in their sleep that pop out at random. Now if she called out tony while you were making love, then yes I would get suspicious. Otherwise you are a insecure moron that has threatened the girl you supposedly love. Grow up and apologize to your women.
2006-12-10 07:58:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's any big deal. Some people talk more in their sleep than others. You can't really control what you dream about, plus just because she said some other guy's name doesn't mean that she likes the other guy. Haven't you ever had a dream about another woman before? I've had weird dreams about other guys before, even of the sexual nature. I've told my husband about them, and we just laugh. One was about someone we know who is openly and totally gay. No danger of anything happening there!
2006-12-10 07:57:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
For the love of God get over it. It is JUST A DREAM!! Haven't you ever dreamed of another girl while dating someone else? Jealousy will get the best of you if you let it.
I like willievan's (above me) answer, ha ha!
2006-12-10 07:59:04 · answer #7 · answered by Maggie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend has seen a guy that she admirers but is just ashame to be truthful to u; afraid that she may hurt your feelings. She is already fantasizing futurewise how it will be with this guy. U need to seriously sit and talk with your girl to know whats this funny name all about!
2006-12-10 08:11:02 · answer #8 · answered by msharvard 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I met a guy online and when he's pissed he calles me by 2 of his ex's names. I told him I'm not putting up with it. He now says I should because he'll always do it, and will always do it.
we can't help what we do in our sleep.
all though, you may have one of those girlfriends who is testing the deeper waters with you....................may be she is playing a sick game she has no idea how much damage she's doing to your relationship. Maybe she's been awake and pretending to being asleep.???
Well, if it bothers you so much, it looks like you just might be kicking her butt out.
2006-12-10 07:59:18 · answer #9 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Come on...You cant really fight with her over a dream she had.
She's innocent until proven guilty.
When this so called "Tony" shows up in real life,then by all means KICK HIS ***! lol.
good luck :)
2006-12-10 07:57:03 · answer #10 · answered by me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋