This guy (kinda perverted, I`ll admit. "mr tough guy" too) has been staring at me a lot lately and we`ve been flirting and stuff. At the dance, he was dancing with some sl*t and his hands were on her @$$. I was getting really mad, but while he was doing that he checked out one other girl and kept looking at me. Then one of his friends caught me staring at him (more like glaring). He whispering something to him and they both looked over at me. Then he said something to all of his friends and they started watching me. Everytime I turned around they were there and if I looked at him (guy i like), they would go say something to him and he`d glance over. He was staring at me before he started dancing with that girl. When I was walking out of the other room and back into the dance, he just gave me this look like," yeah, I know you like me and I know you`re jealous." He definately knows, I can tell. But why was he dancing with her and paying more attention to me? Do you think he likes her?!?
2006-12-10 07:49:27 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let me say one thing, forget about him. There are others guy in this world who would treat you right. Guys like that is trying to make you jeolous. If your staring at him too obvious, then he would assume that you like him. And basically all he want to do is pissed you off. Anyway, don't have anything to do with him. That's all.
2006-12-10 07:54:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think there's two possible answers to this. Either:
a.) He wants you. He's acting that way because he wants you to be jealous, and get you to act. Jump him!
b.) He's an egotistical ****. He's acting that way because he wants you to be jealous and get you to jump him. Ignore him.
I think either way he's probably playing with her casually. I don't think he really likes her. So you like him? Why? Is he really worth your time? If the answer is the aforementioned "b" then forget about him. You like the badass 'idea' of him, not him. If it's definitely not 'b' then maybe you should make a move. We're in new times, and girl can go out and grab a man if she wants to.
Let me give you a tip: don't overcomplicate things, or delve too deeply into minor incidents. I'm not saying that's what you're doing, but I think it might help to temporarily look at things from the view of an outsider, to desensitize.
In this case, since you know a lot more background on him, then you're the final judge.
So good luck with that! ^^
And f*** sluts. Just f*** 'em. (Not literally)
2006-12-10 16:00:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He was trying to make sure he had your attention, but if he's going to be like that, you deserve someone better than that. If he noticed you were checking him out or looking at him, he should've come over and dance with you. But if he's a big pervert and you think that, then he is not a guy I'd go after. And I'd be looking for a decent man who would treat me right, and not try to make me jealous by dancing with a woman of her nature.
2006-12-10 15:54:07 · answer #3 · answered by mason 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He wasn't paying more attention to you, it was just your imagination. He was checking out the other girls and dancing with the ones he wanted to - he did not dance with you. His friends were keeping an eye on you so they could make fun of you. Watch your step or you could become someone you don't want to.
2006-12-10 15:52:51 · answer #4 · answered by kny390 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That's pure game! You can't lose if you don't play along with it. So you can either fight back by getting with some friend of his or something to make him jeolouse, or do what I think would be the right thing, and just distance yourself from him "mentally". Literally act as though he doesn't exist untill you forget about him.
2006-12-10 15:54:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This guy sounds like he has his fingers in every pie, if you don't mind my bad pun. What more do you need to tell you to move on. Who cares if he likes her or is grabbing that other girl, obviously NOT a guy you want to hook up with & if you haven't talked to him or danced with him, why does your question sound like he owes you something?? I wouldn't waste any further time, don't even acknowledge he exists, There are too many guys who will treat you right to waste time on a loser like him!
2006-12-10 15:55:20 · answer #6 · answered by imbri251 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's obvious from your post that he's a player, and you KNOW you can do so much better than that! He sounds like a complete dirtbag. Don't get involved, because I can predict that you'll be so sorry!
Don't let me catch you wasting one more brain cell thinking about this loser!
2006-12-10 15:52:56 · answer #7 · answered by Bad Kitty! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Straight up the guys a player. RUN AWAY. He was probably telling his friends how many girls he can get, and you helped him prove it to his friends by staring at him. He will hurt you if you fall for him. Turst me I used to be him, and I hurt more than a few girls feelings and hearts.
2006-12-10 15:55:36 · answer #8 · answered by Rain 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hes doing it because you are rewarding it. as long as he knows that he can still get your affections and play you for the fool (which he is doing) he will continue to do so. Is there some particular reason he should stop? sure it pisses you off, but what does he care, you'll still go to him. so your anger is meaningless, unless you decide that hes a disgusting jerk. it wont change his behavior - some one will always fall for it, but at least you wont be the fool.
2006-12-10 15:53:30 · answer #9 · answered by savgbst 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You desperately need to get out of his life and have a proper life of your own. All this mind games is such a time waster.
2006-12-10 15:52:54 · answer #10 · answered by tagara 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋