2006-12-10 07:44:50 · 7 answers · asked by hop_lexi 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
If he allready kissed you than you should hold hands cause that shows him that you care for him and that the kiss was a good thing that will probly more lose around you and his friends
2006-12-10 14:15:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you like this boy? IF you do then hold the boys hand if your hand gets wet well thats fine it is just another non verbal way of saying you turn me on.
some kissing and hand holding is a ok . if there comes presure to do more then you have the right to say no not yet. most likely the boy will feel about the same as you . you and the boy should keep matters of intimacy private just you and him. not your friends or his should be privy to all this. your mom or his mom or dad may discuss some aspects of this kind of matter with you and that is fine. mostly girls are likely to get into sharing more detail with there mom and boys and dads share more a kind of wink wink grunt grunt no matter whatever as long you you and this boy are moving at a pace that you are sure you are not miles ahead of where you should be then your fine.
you can learn many basic sexual facts on the intenet but none of them will teach you how to feel or even begin to explain in advance how you will feel . this my dear is the joy of life.
i hope you and your friend have a wonderfull time remember no matter what be well mannered
2006-12-10 17:44:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think that you do what YOU feel comfortable with and mabye when you consider that imgaine that your dad is watching. (Oops sorry but if your young, you might wanna consider that angle; I assuming your dad is a normal dad here that has your long term interests at heart. If you are over 18 which I doubt, ignore this consideration.)
Tell him, you don't feel ready for the hand holding. If you are not comfortable with another kiss, it up to you to draw that line too. With guys you got to communicate the boundaries pretty clearly, we are kind of dumb and can easily get confused. Best form of communication with a guy is to tell him clearly. We never read your sign language.
Obviously, you like him. That's o.k. but again, you have a say on how things go.
Dating is not something where you should feel obligated. If the guy really likes you, he's got to respect your rules and your feelings to.
If you allow yourself to feel obligated guys WILL take advantage and the you will feel like crap. Nobody owns your self respect, except you.
Main fact. You matter. No guy, owns you. As a guy, here I'll tell you that I'll respect that, if I really care about you. If I don't really care about you, then why should I matter to you?
Take care.
2006-12-10 15:59:16 · answer #3 · answered by rostov 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if hes already kissed u id say your ready to hold his hand i mean kissing alot more nerve recking than holding hands believe me i know
dont be pressured to do that though if u dont want to then dont and if he gets mad then yall dont need to go out any ways
2006-12-10 15:54:30 · answer #4 · answered by meme c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he kissed you you should hold his hand
2006-12-10 15:52:00 · answer #5 · answered by school_girl007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well wats the point of u going out w/ him if ur scared of doing those things
2006-12-10 15:47:47 · answer #6 · answered by short stuff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you would hold his hand
2006-12-10 15:59:52 · answer #7 · answered by PrincessBule7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋