It's been a few weeks after my boyfriend of 10months broke up with me&then started dating someone else; but...

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We're still best friends&all&we still talk to each other like we always used to,and it's been great.But we haven't had a closure talk yet&I can tell his new gf thinks I'm some @$$ trying to take him away[WHEN SHE'S THE ONE WHO PULLED HIM AWAY FROM ME.],but I think we REALLY need one or our friendship&trust will never repair&any chance of us EVER getting back together(which he said might happen)will be gone.Others can tell that he is starting to get irritated of her&even I am seeing it by the way she stalks around him all the time&he's never with his buddies anymore.It was a REALLY stupid descision to start a relationship right after ending another cuz the one dumped got hurt,the guy who dumped me is also hurt cuz the two of us are his friends&has a higher chance of old feelings returning&the new girl gets paranoid when I just TALK to him!He's one of my BEST friends I have a right to talk to him.How should I go about asking if me&him can have a final talk without anyone getting "hurt"?

I know that there's a BIG chance he's not coming back, but we really need to do this to save our friendship. Playing games and pretending that I'm fine isn't making him tlak to me, and whenever I try tlaking to him his new gf starts spazzing in her head and finds a way to pull him away from me. I've left them alone for a week and tried talking to him all this week but she's ALWAYS following him NO MATTER WHERE&WHAT.

Answer 1

You're vesting way too much time on an X. No one TAKES anyone.......One must make that kind of choice for oneself. And if it was possible, would you really be interested in a puppet?

Now, if what you say is true (that he's becoming annoyed with her) than the real key here is PATIENCE.

When he realizes who YOU are, he'll be back in your arms.
And the real question is, will you be ready to give him another chance? So in the meantime, dont hold your breath, and/or attempt to step into their relationship. Be on your merry way and ENJOY yourself! Leave them to their drama. ;)