lets say your bf really loved you but you werent sure if it was true love or puppy love so you asked him to do sumthing that could ruin his rep. for sumthing he does best just to c if he really did love you.what do u think of this? do u think its wrong?
2006-12-10 07:35:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im not asking him to do sumthing wrong, and its not going to ruin his life. . .
2006-12-10 07:45:27 · update #1
im just asking him to quit sumthing that hes known for
2006-12-10 07:46:53 · update #2
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If YOU really love him, you wouldn't ask him to do a childish thing like that.
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EDIT:
Um.... what is it you're thinking about exactly?? Is it smoking? A bad habit that's not really good for his health? Does he like to do motorcycle stunts or something?? Does he like jumping out of planes?!
If so, then I think that's very valid. If he does something that can end up killing him (from what it sounds like you said), then I think you should really tell him how you feel about it. If he really does love you, he will consider your thoughts about this.
My friend caught my boyfriend smoking once. He said he does it once in a blue moon. I told him exactly how I felt about that... that it only takes ONE to get addicted... and I don't wanna spend my life with someone who can possibly die on me like that. He loves me so much that he promised me he would never smoke ever again. That meant so much to me.
If I'm wrong about the thing you asked him to give up, sorry...
2006-12-10 07:40:24 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like an easy way to tell, but it's harsh to let him ruin his life for you. I think there's another way to find out.
2006-12-10 07:39:54 · answer #2 · answered by Banana Hero [sic] 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it come to you.i think it is wrong because; if he loves you.. you're not his whole life .... yet. he has dreams and... really...if it would really make you that happy... if he knows its gonna make you happy quiting something he enjoys doing... thinking about you before himself..sacrificing.. then he does love you.
2006-12-11 12:13:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is faith, trust, commitment, patience, and love itselfs, you have to be paitient to see if he loves and has feelings for you, do not do that him be careful for what you ask for. Do not give him altimatiums, god bless babe.
2006-12-10 07:39:54 · answer #4 · answered by old 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feeling insecure I see... Well, my only advice to you is to trust your partner. If you want him to trust you, then you do the trusting first.
2006-12-10 07:39:25 · answer #5 · answered by ultimeaciax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO , IF SOMEONE WANTED ME TO DO SOMETHING WRONG , I SAY GO TO H*LL , I AM NOT PROOFING MYSELF THAT WAY !!
2006-12-10 07:39:06 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is blackmailing...
2006-12-10 07:37:19 · answer #7 · answered by Zach S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋