There is this guy that I really like and he might like me too. We are really good friends rite now, but whenever we IM or email or talk in person, our conversations hit a lull...idk y! he has a lot more fun w/ his other frends who r girls, but i know he doesnt like them...i just dont know what to talk about w/ him! PLEASE HELP!
2006-12-10 07:29:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, it is much harder for us guy to talk to the girl that we like than the girls that we only see just friends. I still don't know the solution for this problem because I sometimes experience it also. However, I always try to make a conversation by asking random questions.
2006-12-10 07:34:03 · answer #1 · answered by ultimeaciax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ACT NORMAL , dont get nervios speak in anything life full of conversations , it doesn't matter in what 2 speak about be normal n u ll find a lot 2 say
when u talk 2 ur friends what u tell 'em ???
2006-12-10 15:33:33 · answer #2 · answered by dahaka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start talking to him more, it sounds like you don't talk all that often. and when you do talk to him, start taking notes, about what is said. You can refer back to your notes, and that will give you a lot more in common. The more you have in common, the easier the conversations will get, and the more interesting.
2006-12-10 15:39:06 · answer #3 · answered by Speedbuggy43 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Completeness and satisfaction are funny things; sometimes when you achieve them you feel like there should be something more, when there doesn't need to be.
I'd say "uncomfortable silences" between you too could develop into the wordless satisfaction and completeness you see in old married couples. Give it time.
2006-12-10 15:33:03 · answer #4 · answered by watcherd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best advice I could give would be.. to be yourself... talk about whats going on (current events), you can always ask him what he likes to talk about (possibly sports). Think about what you'd like to know about.. this is always good cause then he can answer any questions you may have. But be polite, funny and down-to-earth! Remember... BE YOURSELF!
Truly
ElleXiz
2006-12-10 15:52:14 · answer #5 · answered by Ellexiz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to talk about subjects that you and him have in common... that will be your first step.
You could also figure out what makes him have more fun with his friends rather than having with you.
2006-12-10 15:43:34 · answer #6 · answered by Andore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys love to talk about themselves. Just ask him lots of questions...movies, music, sports, sports teams, your friends, what you both want to do in college/work...that kind of thing.
2006-12-10 15:32:18 · answer #7 · answered by dodgechica89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I think you are trying too hard. Just be yourself and talk to him about what you talk to other guys about...just dont bring up PMS...lol
2006-12-10 15:32:15 · answer #8 · answered by HAPPY <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, learn to properly type text in your e-mails and instant messages. Meaning, no "r's" instead of "are"; no "u's" instead of "you" and stop using stuff like lol, wtf, idky, j/k, etc. Your text and the way that you spell make a big difference and impact on the person that reads them.
Now, consider everyone else's comments and assistance in your "problem."
2006-12-10 15:34:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Read some interesting books and move on.
2006-12-10 15:33:59 · answer #10 · answered by WINGER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋