This isn't the most original of problems, but this girl is unlike any other I've ever met. Stunningly gorgeous, awesome personality, good values, good family (from the same city halfway around the world as mine, coincidentally). But of course a girl like that wouldn't be single. She has a long distance boyfriend and they've been dating for about a year. I've only know her for four months and I might only have another six to eight months before I leave this city (we're both here for school only), but I'd hate it if I never did anything about this. I obviously want to respect the fact that she's in a committed relationship, but still let her know how I feel and that she has options, without leaving myself too vulnerable and the ball completely in her court. I know there's no easy answer, but any advice would be great...
2006-12-10 07:24:42 · 16 answers · asked by S.G. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Since she already has someone I would back off...if its meant to be its meant to be_
2006-12-10 07:27:31 · answer #1 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Young man, Listen to an old one. Go for it... It would be different if she was married, if her long distance BO loved her that much he'd find a way to be with her. She may feel the same way about you but is afraid of what you may think if she said something. Don't regret a love you never tried to get for the rest of your life, let her make the choice. Your not treading on some sacred ground here. If I were in your shoes I would think , Hey... too bad for the other guy, I'm here he's not, and even if he was, until she tells you "no" it's on brother.. What do you have to lose? Go for it...
2006-12-10 07:32:44 · answer #2 · answered by Donald P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perfect Girls.met
2016-10-22 11:49:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same situation. I just w8d until they broke up-at the moment it will seem improbable, but trust me it will happen at some point in the near future. After that remember to be there for her and give her time to get over the guy then ask her out.Dont do what i did and asked her out quite soon after.hope this helps
2006-12-10 07:47:01 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 10:05:58 · answer #5 · answered by shakita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not perfect if she has a boyfriend. If she is a good girl and IF she was interested in you she would let her boyfriend know she wants to see other people. It would be disrecyful if you hit on her, but not if you let her know if shes ever single you would try to take her out. be careful of your words.
2006-12-10 07:30:16 · answer #6 · answered by amydc2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you are aware she is in a relationship and will respect that, but you want her to know that you think very highly of her and would like to get to know her more if/when she is ever available.
Leave it at that.... say nothing more and don't try to convince her.
Best Wishes,
Sue
2006-12-10 07:32:53 · answer #7 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would be ok to ler her know how you feel about her but then again you still want to be her friend incase she really loves the guy she's with. Keep the respect for her too.
2006-12-10 07:32:07 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u need to respect the fact that she has a boyfriend but also i think u should share ur feelings with her i mean u never know she could feel the same way
2006-12-10 07:28:34 · answer #9 · answered by goodness gracious 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he's a self-righteous guy, be careful.
2014-07-30 06:32:27 · answer #10 · answered by That Wife 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i had a similar problem with my boyfriend now, but it was that he was dating one of my good friends for over a year.
Just stick around and be friends with her. There's always the chance they will break up and then you can move in. =) Thats what I did!
2006-12-10 07:27:53 · answer #11 · answered by justme 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋