im tired a lot, and i dont believe in taking or drinking caffeine, and the only time i am actually tired is when me and my boyfriend are making out...right when "stuff" starts to happen, no matter how good it is, i always tell him to stop cuz im too tired...but after he leaves, i am wide awake...
help please
2006-12-10 07:19:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im not depressed, and i have never done "anything" with him because of this reason...but i really want, im just too tired. and yes, our relationship is great
2006-12-10 07:24:51 · update #1
maybe u should go to sleep before u see your boyfriend. Or maybe try not to think about being sleepy. Or maybe you should try making out in a different environment where it is alot of activity.
Its a mind thing.
2006-12-10 07:21:41 · answer #1 · answered by lpkegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I experienced my first bout of serious depression, one of my symptoms was that I slept too much, and was sleepy at inappropriate times. I'm just saying depression is a possibility.
Anything else going on with you? I also couldn't eat much, and I wasn't interested in activities I usually enjoyed. Symptoms of depression are different from person to person, but you may want to talk to a professional. Best wishes to you.
2006-12-10 15:26:57 · answer #2 · answered by cancelcodeyellow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my gosh I am just like that I am always tired especially during love making even if it is good but then when hes gone im wide awake It is crazy how the brain works I thik it has something to do with the chemicals in your brain that send the confusion to your body or mabey it really it is serious and u dont know it mabey your brain is blocking something out, that makes you feel like that, my counselor tells me that I am like i love sex but when it comes down to it im tired but then im wide awake and he says it is something in my head that has probably happened and I wanna have sex but that part of the bad thing that happened is blocked out u know its there u just dont know what is it.. Sorry I hope I didnt confuse you, Tina Good-Luck
2006-12-10 15:26:06 · answer #3 · answered by ang3leyz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hormones released during sexual activity can be relaxing and make someone drowsy. The fact that you are wide awake after he leaves leads me to believe that is the problem you are having.
Best Wishes,
Sue
2006-12-10 15:22:21 · answer #4 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he bores you. Or you have no real interest in him. Either you like him or you don't. Believe me if you carry on being this way. Always tired when he is there he is going to leave for good. No guy wants to be around someone who doesn't want them around.
2006-12-10 15:24:56 · answer #5 · answered by george 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be just a little afraid of going all the way thats why it feels like you're tired. Maybe your subconscience is being a bit worried.
2006-12-10 15:37:09 · answer #6 · answered by I Am Jack's Wasted Life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happened to me.
Are you bored of your boyfriend? Does he make "stuff" seem like a chore? Might want to think about that.
2006-12-10 15:22:35 · answer #7 · answered by Lyte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like anemia
2006-12-10 15:33:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest it sounds like some sort of depression.
2006-12-10 15:23:03 · answer #9 · answered by acidcrap 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be ur mind dont like ur boyfriend so u feel tired when he come near 2 u
did u had this feelin' wiz perivous boyfriend " i dont think so "
2006-12-10 15:23:34 · answer #10 · answered by dahaka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋