But I told him I couldn't call him b/c I'm dating someone now and we should stop chatting. The subject line of his response was "Be careful." And here's his msg:
"I'm glad you think I'm nice and cute and that you like me. But, I can be very nasty too! Yes, I have a hidden nasty boy side.
The likelihood of things working out permanently with this other guy is probably not very high. So, you might want to re-consider cutting me off like this...."
We barely knew each other! Never met. We never even had any deep talks and there was NO mention of sex. He's this upset by rejection?
What can/should I do?
2006-12-10 07:18:14 · 21 answers · asked by toplessone19700 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sax M-
Who said I answered his emails AFTER he turned into a jerk? Did you read the question?
"The only reason why you answer them is because you're interested..."
You sound like a typical guy. And that's not good. I was intrigued when he first emailed me. Then when I said it couldn't go any further, he didn't handle rejection well. At all. Why am I concerned? Because he started sounding threatening and dangerous. So I went to the police and filed a report.
"Why the hell should you care about someone's feeling if you've never even met them and you've never even had any kind of real relationship with them?"
As stated, he sounded dangerous and one can never be too careful.
"I understand that you're a woman and you're probably indecisive, but learn to make a firm decision and stick with it."
You're obviously trying to bait me into an argument. Grow up.
"Stop worrying so much about people who aren't important in your life."
I will, starting with you.
2006-12-11 09:24:38 · update #1
What is your problem? Just stop answering his emails. The only reason why you answer them is because you're interested. If you're not interested you don't answer.
Why the hell should you care about someone's feeling if you've never even met them and you've never even had any kind of real relationship with them?
I understand that you're a woman and you're probably indecisive, but learn to make a firm decision and stick with it. Stop worrying so much about people who aren't important in your life.
2006-12-10 20:42:58 · answer #1 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 4⤋
This guy sounds to me like he could be dangerous. From what I'm seeing here, he hasn't done anything yet, for which he could be prosecuted, but don't encourage him by communicating with him any more.
Report the communication you have already received to Yahoo. They might respond by canceling his account. Of course, he can easily open another one, but that wouldn't look good for him in court, if it gets that far.
Save and print out copies of any communications you have received from him. If he keeps it up, visit your local police station, and fill out a report. You may need to get a restraining order, so he will be charged with stalking, if he keeps it up.
If it does go that far, and he is actually charged, visit the prosecutor immediately, to let them know you are serious about pursuing it.
Whatever you do, don't worry about hurting his feelings. It has already gone beyond that, and he is obviously not concerned with yours.
2006-12-10 07:29:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well you should report him. Usually you have an option when you're chatting to report people for anything offensive so go ahead and do that and try to get his #, save the e-mails and print them then take them to the police along with his # and see if they can do anything. You should also tell your bf or whoever it is you're seeing now.
2006-12-10 07:27:01 · answer #3 · answered by K-prod , KK, K-lizzle cousins call me all of those 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Report the Coward He's crossing lines that are criminal and dangerous.Be very careful i wouldn't want you to be hurt got any tough relatives you can hang with till you sort this out please.He is a insecure boy.He needs help before he hurts somebody.Don;t let him take your power on you.Don;t be scared but be careful
2006-12-10 07:26:10 · answer #4 · answered by Victorio 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds a bit funny, i would just cut him off cold. if something like that makes you feel uncomfortBLE then stop communication immediatly. The web can be a hunting ground for strange people. block him from your messenger contacts and make sure your contact details/phone details are not available and attached to your profile. i hope you get it sorted ok. i can understand how it could make you worried and concerned.
2006-12-10 07:25:39 · answer #5 · answered by theoriginalsource 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um...this guy sounds like a weirdo. Just tell him that you're happy with who you're with and that you think not chatting is the best thing to do. If he sends you any more e-mails, don't reply back to him. You'll be giving him license to be a weirdo again.
2006-12-10 07:45:53 · answer #6 · answered by Abby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should ignore him on your messenger and and ignore him on your email. Make sure you do not have any information on yourself in your yahoo Id for him to look up. Does he know what town you live in? I would be cautious if he knows your full name that he might be able too look up your address/phone number and contact you.
2006-12-10 07:23:13 · answer #7 · answered by me. 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are that worried about it just don't answer his emails anymore.
I hope you didn't give out any real information like your phone # or where you lived even what city.
if you don't answer him or even read his emails then he will forget about you and move on, your worry will go as well.
good luck with your current relationship.
2006-12-10 07:23:04 · answer #8 · answered by Marg N 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Here's what you do:
If you get another email from him, delete it.
Don't read it, don't respond to it, just delete it.
He sounds disturbed.
If you can, block all email from him.
You can also report him to Yahoo for threatening behavior (not Y!A, but Yahoo itself - violation of TOS).
2006-12-10 07:21:32 · answer #9 · answered by Bad Kitty! 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Sounds a little freaky of him, to me. I'd forget about him and move on, because that kind of message is disturbing.
2006-12-10 07:21:12 · answer #10 · answered by Tawny 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋