What should i tell my mom?

Question

Im 15 yrs old and i just found out that im pregnant. ive been with this boy for almost 2 yrs.. But im not sure if i should tell my mom that i lost my virginity first, and then wait a while to tell her that i think im pregnant or if i should just come right out and tell her that im pregnant. please help me?

Answer 1

The sooner you tell her the truth the better. Shes going to be upset with you, but after awhile things will get better. Just remember no matter how mad she gets, shes your mother, and your her daughter. She will always love you.

Answer 2

I think you should tell your mom right away. I'm sure because you're a minor she will have to help you get all your insurance in place for you and the baby and start you on prenatal care. It's super important to see the doctor in the next few weeks at the latest. I had my first baby at 17 and it's hard to do when you're young but it sounds like your boyfriend will be there for you. It's still important that you let your mom help too. There is no sense stressing yourself out and making it 2 different conversations. Your mom might even be mad but she will still love you and help you no matter what. You'll know in about 9 months how it feels to be a mom and you'll understand then why. You'll do fine!

Answer 3

I never got the chance to tell my mom i was pregnant. She passed away from cancer 6 days before we found out. At 20 yrs. old that was pretty hard and still is. Now i have a 11 month old and i'm 6 months pregnant. I think your mom may have some idea that your sexual active, she was 15 once. I would sit her down and say were pregnant. I know your disappointed and upset but it is was it is and i pray you'll forgive me.
GOOD LUCK!!!

Answer 4

Just sit down with your mom and say mom we need to talk. I know you will be scared like crazy but do it for the baby. Are u positive your pregnant? Just tell your mom please do not be mad but its important you hear me first. First tell her you lost your virginity however long ago. Then tell her you did something that is life changing. Next say mom, I know I am just 15 but I accidentally got pregnant. She will probably be going insane but tell her there is no use for yelling because its done it happened and there is nothing that yelling can help change. You did the deed and will take responsibility. She will notice anyways if you do not tell her soon. Tell her by this wednesday (12/16/06

Answer 5

the best person to talk to is you're mum !! you're mum is like a best freind a friend you will never have !!! i found it hard to tell my mum when i got pregnant and that was at age 17 !! the thoughts that must be going through your head at the moment must be all over the place !! i would say tell youre mum as they will not look down on you they will be by your side to support you and they have the best advice specially if you want to keep this baby as finacially youre mum will have to support you and the baby because of your age good luck xx also youre mum knows you have been with this lad for 2 years i think she may have suspected that it was going to happen sooner or later xx

Answer 6

You should tell your mom soon. It's incredibly important to get good health care while you're pregnant. You should be taking vitamins and being checked by a doctor on a regular basis to make sure that everything is ok with the pregnancy. She might be mad at first but she will get over it.

Answer 7

My best friends niece found out she was pregnant at 13.... She told her mom right away and her mom was mad for like a day or two then wanted to buy her everything!!! She will get over it and be excited at some point babe, don't worry!! Just say MARRY CHRISTMAS: Your going to be a grandma!! OR give her baby shoes for Christmas and a card letting her know that you are sorry to tell her..... ya know?? Try to put it in a possitive way=c) Good luck babe!

Answer 8

You have to tell her. And I would suggest just telling her you're pregnant. If you tell her one bit and then another you'll just have to go through two episodes. I was 17 when I got pregnant and when I told my mom she wasn't angry at me. She wanted to help me and she was sad that my life was going to change drastically but she wasn't mad. Go to your mom, she's probably going to be your best friend in the world for the next 9 months. I know I clung to mine like a 5 year old.

Answer 9

this is quite a difficult situation.

if you have been with your partner for 2 years then i'm sure she may of suspected that you could be having sex. i mean its the norm these days.

i would sit down with her and your boyfriend and explain it to her.

tell her that you and him have been together 2 years and you have just found out you are pregnant.

at first she will hit the roof after all in her eyes you are still a little girl.

but if you show her that you are mature enough to look after a baby and become a family eventually she will come round to the idea but you will have to give it time.

hope it goes ok for you and good luck in your pregnancy.

Answer 10

you are going to have to tell her eventually. im sure your mom loves you and it might be hard to tell her but its for the best. im 24 and my baby is due today. when i got pregnant i lived with my parents and i have been with my babys daddy for seven years, and it was one of the hardest things to tell my parents for me, so dont let anyone tell you its easy. my mom was upset at first (she didnt think i was a virgin of course) but once i told her that i was keeping the baby my dad and her warmed up to the idea and now they are more excited then me! After you tell her it will take some time but i promise everything will turn out ok. it has to get worse before it can get better. im so glad that i decided to keep my baby, she saved my life, things have never been so good for me. just tell your mom, the sooner the better, she wont stop loving you, she may be mad at first, but things will get better.