I met this man online and I feel such a bond strong attraction to him. he tells me he wants to meet me. It seems like now though that we have grown very close he backs away and I dont know how to deal with this. I am overflowwing with such feeling from him cause we connect ona much more deeper level than physical honestly. I dotn know if we are honestly each others "Physical" types but emotional connection is WAY STRONG! PLease enlightne me on what i should do about this. Is it possible Ican love himw ithoutr even meeting him?
2006-12-10 06:23:54 · 14 answers · asked by bobravers 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its all relative really. I mean, what you feel right now may very well be love. I dont think there is any certain criteria for being in love other than feeling that you are. I do however believe that infatuation is often mistaken for love in many cases.
2006-12-10 06:26:51 · answer #1 · answered by Bistro 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can love him cuz God said love everyone , the question is are you in love with this person. You have a conversation going on and that is inportant but anyone can talk the talk the real meat is when you meet this peron physcially will you be attracted to him? Second everything is always good inthe beginning of a relationship but when you spend time with a person for a while you are starting to get the real essence of a person. I think that conversation is great but starting a relationship consists of communication, spending time, money, etc Don't get caught up in kid stuff if you know what I mean
2006-12-10 14:34:56 · answer #2 · answered by tellthetruth 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I met a man by hearing about him through another teacher I was working with. I was deeply impressed by the character he displayed through their friendship. I just had a strong feeling that this was the man that would be my soul mate. We did meet and marry and he changed my life for the better. My son met his future bride through yahoo personals but again they had gone to the same high school, had the same friends and had even been in the same play but had not met! There is one important difference in our experiences and yours. I live in a small community, he was known in the community for good works and I met him in a Sunday school class he taught and I heard about him from a friend. My son had a great deal in common including personal contacts with his future bride.You, however, are talking about someone that you can't prove anything about is true so I would not let emotion carry you away. I think you should just enjoy the exchange of ideas.
2006-12-10 14:36:47 · answer #3 · answered by StarGalactica 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i resemble this question. i work for a contractor in iraq. i met a lady from the same city i lived in, in the us, online. we've exchanged pictures, many hours on the phone, emails, ect. do i love her? not sure. i am very attracted to her, i like her alot. i want to see where it goes. i'm not shopping for rings yet. i do think getting to know a person, before meeting them, with safeguards, is easier, you get to know the person, without the physical distractions. i think you can talk more openly this way, than in person. we are going to meet during my next r&r and see how that goes. i will admit to being just a LITTLE cynical after a divorce, and the last few (now ex) girlfriends i met in the more traditional ways
i say good luck, but be careful
2006-12-10 18:21:33 · answer #4 · answered by Wildman 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You want enlightenment?Hell Yes there's a problem.Can you say On line Pr editor?Your letting your feelings run wild over a man you've never seen,Don't know anything about,and you don't know if he is telling you the truth about anything he's saying.He sounds nice.Jeffery Dohmer sounded nice,John Wayne Gacy,David Berkowitz(Son of Sam),Ted Bundy.Should i go on?All sounded nice until the people they killed got to know them.God gave you a mind to think with,us it,and stop letting your emotions rule how you think.It will cause you more harm than good.
2006-12-10 14:47:30 · answer #5 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is honest, you have met him through your msgs and emails. I know right away if I care to continue a relationship online or not. Some people put feelings and emotion into their online relations and that helps know them before you actually meet.
2006-12-10 14:26:51 · answer #6 · answered by boxersgirlbunny 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
its possible to love without ever meeting. at least you guys chat. im worst off. for me, its a girl that i've seen a hundred times over at school. she was ok, not that pretty, i never really paid attention to her but now that im out of school, i saw her at the mall once. and now i cant stop thinking about her. the worst part is, i dont even know her name. i guess its more like a crush but still, i cant stop thinking about her.
for you, that sounds like love but be weary of the internet. he make look very ugly to where you cant stand him or he may be a physco maniac looking to prey on young girls.
2006-12-10 14:29:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes we belive its possible to love someone with out even meeting them face to face and to be honest were actually proof that it happens we started talking in august of 2006 and met in december and got married the same day so yes its possible
but just keep your eyes open and keep youor heart open til u no 100 percent if u need help on this anymore feel free to im us or email us ok thanks and best wishes
2006-12-10 14:34:56 · answer #8 · answered by Angie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No...you don't love "him" because you don't really know him...you may love what you (think you) know about him...you may love the person you've created in your mind that is made up of what you think you know about him and what you think he is like...
...you see,there are HUGE gaps in our knowledge of someone we've never met, thus we either leave those areas blank until we get to know them...or we fill them in, in our own minds, with the quality or characteristic we think or we want that person to have, based on our other contact with them.
What you are feeling is infatuation at most...how can you love someone you cannot really know?
2006-12-10 14:27:52 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
i respect your feelings for him. he must be someone very special who can peek into someones heart without even meeting her. that good. but on ur side u must be honest to ur heart. i think u must meet him before taking any decision.
coz it may be love, it may be infatuation also. it may be ur desires (only) also.
we can say that looks doesnt matters but surely they do. be practical. think about urself also. and remember, love is not a game.
take care. byee
2006-12-10 14:31:16 · answer #10 · answered by Tabbu 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋