my boyfriend told me he didnt feel like hanging out cuz he was tired then i found out he went out with his?

Question

My boyfriend told me he didnt wanna hangout cuz he was tired but then as im on the phone with him the phones cuts out (which is a lie) and i was calling him all night thinking something happened to him he finally calls me at 6 am and i hear him with his friend he went out to a bar with his friends and coulndt hangout with me. he lied to me and i cant let it go ive been with him for a year and 3 months i think im going to break up with him. i cant take liars but i love him this sucks

he was out drunk partying he wasnt upset, i was the one upset at home and now he hasnt even tried to apologize except one text message i am so sorry i was an asshole.

i cant think of anyother reason why someone would lie and not want me out with him and his friends unless he was cheating. why else would he lie

Answer 1

I think you should talk to him about it. Hopefully, it's the same type of experience I had a few days ago. I was upset and wanted to be with my friends, so my best friend called her boyfriend cause she said he'd be good at cheering me up, but I didn't want to see my boyfriend because I didn't want to be upset in front of him. Unfortunately, he was standing right next to my friends bf and heard that I didnt want him around then. He got pretty upset and thought I didn't want him ever to be there for me. Finally I talked to him about it and told him I just wanted to be with my friend cause I was upset and didn't want to get upset in front of him. We had a long concerstaion about it, and now were a little bit closer too. Hopefully, your boyfriend just wanted to relax with friends for some reason. Ask him about about it, talk to him. It really does help.

Answer 2

maybe he was out with a girl, maybe he was really out with his friends. either way he lied to you, how can he not have time for you but has time to be with his "guys" something doesnt sound right here. he couldve answered atleast one of your calls and with him doing that, makes it even more suspicious. he called you around his friend because he needed a cover-up so that you wouldnt think he was with another lady. him doing that would make me even more susipicious. him hanging out with his friends is fine, but him say that he was tired and then going out with his friends is another issue.