How can you tell if a guy likes you?
2006-12-10 06:11:39 · 22 answers · asked by nonestopchick 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How to tell if he likes you
(and if he's flirting with you in his special own guy-way).
A lot depends on the type of guy and his individual personality.
Shy Guys
These are tough to crack sometimes...
He'll look at you, until you turn around, then boom, he's looking the other way.
You may 'feel' like he's watching you - but he's hard to catch at it
He may do something physical - like grab you in a play way, poke you, play with your hair...
(Remember when you were really young and the guy you liked punched you or tackled you?)
He may be working really hard to pay attention to you, but doesn't quite know how...
He may ask a friend of yours about you - he'll say it's just for "friend of mine" that wants to know about you.
He talks to everybody else - but when you're around he turns silent, or chokes up.
You seem to accidentally bump into him a lot of different places.
He may not say a word to you, but he shows up in the same line, at the same movie, etc.
He'll give you a little smile from across the room, but if you get near, he won't look up.
Basically - the BIG clue is that his behavior changes when you're around (compared to when he's around his buds or other girls).
DEAD Giveaway - when you talk to him he turns red.
(Bingo - you can pack that puppy up and take him home...)
These are some of the more subtle clues - keep your eyes open - you may have more guys flirting with you than you realize!!!
He remembers little things you mention in casual conversation.
It may take you by surprise. You might have been talking when he was around and two weeks later he'll say, "Well, you like orange fizz..."
His voice changes when he talks to you in a group. He may say "Hey." to everyone with you, but the "Hey." to you is a little different.
His voice gets softer when the two of you talk.
Sometimes he stares straight into your eyes.
His eyes get 'soft' when he looks at you. They change slightly or get relaxed around the edges. It's subtle, but you can tell if you watch...
(You may already be aware of it at a subconscious level - that's what made you start wondering if he likes you...)
When he's near you or talking with you, his eyes travel in a little circle around your face and land back on your eyes. (Like he's looking at your whole face - then back to your eyes.)
He watches your lips. (Dead give away.)
His friends start asking you questions - if you haven't met him yet - they may ask what your name is. Or may ask you what you think about 'him.'
If his friends are paying attention to you after he's been staring at you - it can mean that he's been talking about you.
He tells you that you smell nice...
(No hidden meaning here - it's a good thing.)
He might act weird around you or seem very nervous. His behavior may just plain change when you're around.
If he's normally quiet, he may get louder, or vice versa. It's the difference in behavior that's the clue.
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MORE INCLUDE
Signs that he likes you He blushes and sweats. You intimidate him.
He stares at you. (He can be a stalker, beware)
He does things to deliberately gain your attention.
He stutters when he speaks to you.
His pupils dilate when you are up close and you see them... Beware, pupils dilate when it is dim, mostly.
He waits for you. He looks out for you.
He laughs at your jokes when no one else does.
He teases you because he wants you to remember and notice him.
He listens to you and actually remembers little details.
He notices slight changes in your appearance.
He seems sad when you ignore him.
He seems jealous when you are with another guy. Whoo.
His friends all know you when you don't know them.
He smiles back when you smile at him.
He often stares at you and when you catch him, he does that cute head turn, very fast!
He performs sweet acts for you. He defends and protects you. He tolerates you being mean to him.
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STEP 1: Sometimes seeing someone you have a crush on results in telltale physiological signs. Does the person in question blush when you look at him or her? His or her sympathetic nervous system is probably going into overdrive. Does he or she have trouble speaking, using jumbled words when talking to you? STEP 2: See if the person in question mirrors your motions: When you lean back, he or she leans back; when you put your elbows on the table, he or she does the same. STEP 3: Note whether this person sits or stands in the open position - that is, facing you with arms uncrossed. In addition, a woman tends to cross her legs in a man's direction. STEP 4: Does he or she move closer to you and/or touch you subtly, such as with a pat of your hand or a touch of your cheek? STEP 5: Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away, energetic speech coupled with open hands, and flashing palms. STEP 6: Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
2006-12-10 06:14:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the setting. If its in school, the guy will talk to you a little more than anyone else. He'll come up with excuses (depending on his finness, they may be obvious or subtle) to talk to you, borrow your pencil. If his guy-friends call him over to another side of the room, does he hisitate to leave the conversation he's having with you?
Outside of school its sometiems harder to tell becuase its not a structured environment so its harder to tell whats normal and whats not. But the basics are the same, he'll want your attention despite himself if he likes you, so it will seem like he is talking more to you than to anyone else...
2006-12-10 06:15:14 · answer #2 · answered by ChaChaChingThing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number one: Nobody's best; and sure little disorders or dramas could make matters fascinating and hold a dating alive. Number 2: Yes, men are intimidated by means of Girls (primarily if she appears to be certainly not anything wanting best in his eyes.....it may well additionally occur if the Girl has a tendency to be wellknown for the entire incorrect explanations and draws a ton of hindrance to herself; striking her possess existence in threat within the procedure.
2016-09-03 08:57:08 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's pretend he's nice guy and not a playa, you will know by the way he acts toward you. Is he polite or friendly, etc. Does he smile and wink or just smile? The signs may be subtle, but they will be there.
2006-12-10 06:15:52 · answer #4 · answered by boxersgirlbunny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he starts to make excuses to be near or with you, if he makes an effort to hang out with you more, if he starts talking to your friends more, if he gets a little nervous around you...and if he stares at your mouth when ur talking, u can wrap him up and take him home-he's crazy for u!!
2006-12-10 06:14:54 · answer #5 · answered by onetwothree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to tell is if he says. Hey I really like you.
2006-12-10 06:14:35 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just barely, guys don't show the way they feel, unlike girls... even if you think they like you, its probably just a deeper "friendship". But when he really likes you, he'll tell you.
2006-12-10 06:13:25 · answer #7 · answered by Yuri Ebihara 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he txts back when u text him...
he behaves strangely around u (either he is loud/strange.. depends on the type of guy)...
he shares things with u...
he will strive to get ur attention...
he is hurt when u ignore him...
he tries to throw signs at u --body language...
+ many more things that can be felt with the heart...
2006-12-10 06:26:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he calls you at least 3 times a week and keeps asking you if you want to hang out. or if he invites you over to his place.
2006-12-10 06:13:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He looks at you a lot of his friends when their with him,he smiles a lot at you,he gets nervous around you.
2006-12-10 06:13:28 · answer #10 · answered by MaMu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If can not tell then no one likes you, sorry
2006-12-10 06:13:40 · answer #11 · answered by Jo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋