Can someone please help me out with this?!?

Question

My best friend has a problem and I really want to help her. She wants to wait until marriage but she feels like she's about to explode. I've done what I can to help but it doesn't seem to work. She doesn't want me to come over her house right now because she doesn't want anything to happen and I understand that. BTW she's a virgin and she can't take it anymore. Can someone please give me some advice so I can help her?

Answer 1

PERHAPS, she should "OBEY GOD'S WORD?"

(1Corinthians 6:18-19-20) Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.

(1Co 6:19) What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?

(1Co 6:20) For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God's.

THEN, tell he to QUIT WATCHING VIDEOS OR TV WITH STRONG [ANY] SEXUAL CONTENT!

Then have her Start RUNNING! Exercise will lessen the desires of the flesh, ESPECIALLY LONG DISTANCE ENDURANCE RUNNING!

Thanks, RR

Answer 2

well, i'm a girl and i know it's hard for her. it's so much harder to be a girl because there are alot of other things to think about rather than just pleasure, like a boy. (babies, and that whole stigma...) to be honest, there really isn't a magic phrase that will make her ok with herself. it's a time every girl gotta go thru, and well...i always thought that if i didn't wait, i'd be used up and with no man, cause i'm wouldn't be married. this probably didn't help... cause nothing really will. just comfort her i guess....she wants it to be special. and i think marriage is way more sacred than crashing at a boys place, and possibly they'll be broken up in a week or so. that would hurt. BAD. so, anyways, don't say you understand, cuz you don't. just be there. or try to at least. good luck.

Answer 3

Tell her since she is going to be married before the almighty God, she needs to pray for strength to make it all the way to the alter with out falling weak in the flesh.

1 John 2:16 For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world.

Galatians 5:16 This I say then, Walk in the Spirit, and ye shall not fulfil the lust of the flesh.

Tell her to study her bible, and ask God to take that feeling of lust out of her heart so her wedding night can be perfect for the both of them.

Answer 4

Honestly? No. You cannot convince another that something is better, with out a way of proving it. If she is determined, she will find a way.

A note, waiting is another gift. It is learning a mystery together. Something to remember.

Answer 5

i think its great she wants to remain a virgin until shes married. she should just pray for GOD to give her the strength to stay that way and not to give into the devil and all his little demons. GOD can help her if she will just let him. he is stronger than we are. you should pray for the situation also. i really hope this has helped. good luck and GOD BLESS YOU BOTH!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 6

Go to Pam Stenzel.com

Answer 7

Nothing wrong with doing it, but use protection. Virginity is a mind thing not a physical thing. And to all religious argument, read this; http://www.godisimaginary.com/index.htm

Answer 8

I second the advice that she masturbate.
That's what normal people do to handle this kind of problem.

Answer 9

some handy advice would help here. masturbation! she can maintain her virginity and her wedding vows

Answer 10

Tell her to stop thinking about sex. and then stop pressuring her to have sex.