me and my daughter father been togther for 5 years we lived together for 2 he cheated on me and change the locks on me and my daughter, i had to end up moving back to my mother house.after i move to my mother house i found out he go the girl pregnant and they did not even last.
since me and him is not togther he been moving from women to women and now hes not even sure if the baby he have now is his, im thinking about giving him another chance i really do love him i never stop what should i do
2006-12-10 06:03:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Can you really put all of that behind you? I don't think it would be easy. I don't think giving him another chance would be in your best interest. He sounds very unstable.
2006-12-10 06:05:21 · answer #1 · answered by not*a*placebo*81 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are probably thinking you should give it a try. Don't stop and think if he cheated and changed the locks what kind of man is that. He had no consideration for your feelings when he did that or his daughter for that matter. I really dont know what kind of relationship you had with him but it dont sound to good if he can do that too you and his daughter. You will find someone else who loves you for you and will not hurt you. And that someone else will love your daughter too. He doesn't necesarily have to take the place of her father. Hopefully her father will still be that a father. I know that sometimes it is hard to believe that but its true. It happens all the time. I really don't think you should. I know people can change but most don't they just put on a mask for a little while. Really it is up to you if you can put yourself through that again. I know you love him and will probably never stop. But really think about it. Can you do that to yourself again? What if he desides to do it again can your daughter handle that cause she is probably going to understand some of it now not all of it but some. And that is alot for a child to handle they may start to blame themselves. Remember that its not only you its your daughter too. Do what you think is best for the both of you and I hope that the best does happen for you.
2006-12-10 14:18:19 · answer #2 · answered by Kelsie R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what you should do! Do you really want this to be the example you set for your daughter? Just imagine this, you come home, he takes the baby and locks you out, it will happen. Think about the mental damage this man will cause your daughter and you. Nurse your broken heart by taking your daughter to the park etc. Join a parents without partners get you and your child envolved with the YMCA or county events to meet other single parents your age, and to develope a suport system, and tell this guy good bye, it's hasn't been fun!
2006-12-10 14:33:12 · answer #3 · answered by ReBelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you go bak and you'll end up just like someone i know.Her husband would lock her out.He was even the abusive type!and you wanna know what happened she never left just cuz she thought she loved him too much and all the stress and everything took her away,Yes sad to say but she died and now he has like three other women enjoying life when now she doesnt have any life to enjoy! so its all up to you. i know it's hard but you've already left and that's a big step, the hardest of all.Getting over him is all now just a matter of time.You've done well keep fighting for you and our daughter.Don't go back.....
2006-12-10 14:17:56 · answer #4 · answered by ANGEL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him. There are plenty of guys out there, that will treat you right. He sounds like the kind of guy that's out there to score, and don't want to pay the penalty. He's a loser, and he'll take you down with him. Clean up your act, and get out there and start shopping for a better bargain.
2006-12-10 14:09:57 · answer #5 · answered by Speedbuggy43 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is wrong with you.... you like punishment! Move on ... he will do you the same over and over as long as you keep taking him back!
He done you dirty and most of all he did his daugghter wrong so, how can you want someone who does their own daughter wrong? Think about your daughter , she deserves a better dad then him!
I would report him to welfare for non-payment of child support , he is a loser and a dead beat dad! MOVE ON!!!!!
2006-12-10 14:09:02 · answer #6 · answered by MagikButterfly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know it hard but try to forget him he's no good to you
2006-12-10 14:07:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he did it once he'll do it again
2006-12-10 14:07:32 · answer #8 · answered by fancyone762000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋