I met dis man, he's cute, fun, intelligent, funny, he adores me and have a good personaility in general, I would love to go farther wit him but my last boyfriend is holding me back. My last love was bad but then again it was good. How can I get over him and move on wit dis great guy that I just met?
2006-12-10 06:00:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so your last boyfriend put it on you and the new one can't cut the mustard
2006-12-10 06:03:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its defintely not easy. I would take it slow with this one. Im trying to move on myself with meeting new people, however I get bored really quickly with all of them. There is no spark or excitement that I had with my last boyfriend. My last boyfriend made me feel so proud to be around him and just stirred such happiness whenever I got to see his face. All of these guys seem nice, but just dont give me the same feelings.
The only way to do it is keep trying, remove all memories of your ex from your room, find other activities to occupy your time. Maybe it will go away....maybe it wont. It all depends on when you let go.
2006-12-10 06:04:27 · answer #2 · answered by bluestar_dreamsx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah such a common issue. Force yourself to let go of the past and "Keep moving forward".This advise I took and it has helped me to keep moving forward so that I may open up my heart once again. If you keep holing yourself back you give your ex power over you and it will ruin every chance of a new relationship to develop in the future. It sounds so much easier than it is but keep this in mind with your ex...."better to of loved than to of never of loved at all" I have learned in time that I can't shut my heart off from others who sincerely want a chance at my heart or I may never have love again. Let someone else love you give them a chance it may be better than before but you will never know this until you try. Life is about lessons taking risks and learning and growing from them. Our own experiences and how we deal with each one makes us the person we are. Love is the most wonderful emotion so take a risk let someone else in.
2006-12-10 06:27:25 · answer #3 · answered by daydreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-11 06:20:13 · answer #4 · answered by jeniffer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make new memories with a new guy! Time will heal all wounds and you have learned from this mistake i hope! Look at your new b/f in new light. Everyone is different and you need to do things together to make new memories!
2006-12-10 06:04:05 · answer #5 · answered by MagikButterfly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you didnt feel a "click" when you met him you are not going to fell it in the future. so just sit and wait for the right guy, he WILL come dont worry and meanwhile just try to have fun
2006-12-10 06:06:05 · answer #6 · answered by rupert 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋