married, alone, single, life, necessary
2006-12-10 05:57:32 · 32 answers · asked by abc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
If being alone is working out fine for you, then there's no reason in the world to change. However, most people who think this way find that later in life they wish they had someone special to grow old with, and that they wish they'd had children to take care of them in their old age.
If neither thought bothers you, then live your life how it makes you happy, and more power to you.
2006-12-10 06:42:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is not a necessary thing to continue the life.
One can live alone, if he/she is a bread winner.
No one can force a person to marry some body else except the parents.
Alone and single life can also be carried on/in, but like a curry without salt.
If that type of life is selected for continuing, it is better to go for social service along with this decision. Best of luck!
2006-12-10 06:10:00 · answer #2 · answered by naari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to live alone, then by all means you only have one life...so live alone. Eventually if you find you're wanting to share your life with someone...then that means your at the right place in your life and ready to do that. Then you can wait until that amazing person comes along. Either way don't let society tell you what and what not you should do. Everything is personal. Just make sure that you don't get swept up in this fast paced culture along with being alone...I think when you live alone it's important to be happy with yourself and take time out to refocus on the things that really matter.
2006-12-10 06:53:35 · answer #3 · answered by corinne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married life is not necessary...some people are called to marry and others would rather live alone. It is a personal preference.
2006-12-10 11:19:04 · answer #4 · answered by VAWeddingSpecialist 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not necessary for life, of course. People get married when they love each other and want to share their lives. You're talking like that because you haven't found the person yet. Living alone it's great. You live in your way, without thinking if you do things wrong. But getting older everyone needs someone to share his thoughts, feelings....
2006-12-10 06:28:21 · answer #5 · answered by valya g 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's not necessary 4 u 2 get marry. If u think u can handle ur life alone then let it b. Make ur carrier n bound sucess under ur feet.
But someday or another u'll feel like 2 talk or b with somebody when u'll feel lonely from ur heart. May b ur frends n family would not able 2 console ur lonely heart n u'll need some1 special in ur life. Then u'll get marry. Till then enjoy 2 b single
2006-12-12 00:52:18 · answer #6 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, if u want to stay alone then go on.marriage is not a must if u have loads of friends and have a great social life and siblings and their kids basically a big family who can take care of you.but nobody cares as a wife and your own kids do. don't just get married for this reason alone .you will be inviting a person into your life full heartedly not just because of family pressure whats so ever.marriage comes as a package with love, affection,responsibility,kids,fights,differences etc etc.when you feel upto it then go for it.otherwise all your life u would regret why did i ever get married and will spoil your partners life too.
2006-12-10 14:45:47 · answer #7 · answered by tina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it seems like it may not be ecessary now.. career, going to tanzania on an african safari, being independent, getting up late on weekends, free lancing in the bars for chicks(or dudes, which ever u into) may seem like a great thing now....
but think about at after 50, chances of your elder generation being around are slim, your siblings and friends are busy being ignored by their children and have their own problems to solve... the nurse you employ to take care of you may not be around all day....
i'm not saying marriage is gonna guarentee you a golden post retirement era, but it reduces the chances of you being alone... i know many(i actually know 6, whoa!) singles in their 50s and 60s regretting the decision to stay single... they have absolutely no one to take care of them, and family can do only upto a point.
give it a thought... priorities change every 2 years.. i bet what ever u wanted at the beginning of college, or just after college, or 2 years after that are completely different from each other... may be you will want marriage 2 years down the line... just give it some time till you are absolutely ready to raise the courage to say, yes, this may be a wrong decision today, but one day i'll be happy about it...
hope things work out for you buddy :)
2006-12-10 06:34:20 · answer #8 · answered by ramu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on u .If u r not the sticky type , its better to live a alone . How r u supposed to spend more than half of ur lifetime with another person and be true to him/her . At some point of time u may feel thats it i want a change and thus ruin urs as well as ur partners life . So better take ur time nd think if u r fit for such a life and if u have the right partner .. best of luck
2016-05-23 02:25:33 · answer #9 · answered by Shirley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
married people live longer, but no it's not necessary. Married people GENERALLY also have higher incomes (two people working, typically), and can afford better housing, cars, etc. But if you're not the marrying type, it's best to stay single.
2006-12-10 06:00:45 · answer #10 · answered by I hate friggin' crybabies 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋