My girlfriend and I have been together for about a month. Last night I went over to her house after a party and we were both pretty drunk. She had never had sex before and we only planned on messing around. Things kinda got out of hand and we had sex. I doubt she is on birth control but I pulled out and didn't *** in her or get it near her. Well now that we are sober I am still worried about her getting pregnant. Her period is not for a couple weeks. Should I bee worried about this? I had never done that before and we didn't plan on having sex but it kind of went there..
2006-12-10 05:49:21 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most likely she is not pregnant but you should be worried and so should she. Nothing you can do now but wait a few weeks and if her period doesn't come she needs to take a test. Maybe your worry will teach you a lesson. Start keeping condoms with you and she should think about getting on the pill.
2006-12-10 05:54:27 · answer #1 · answered by not*a*placebo*81 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should be worried.
1 - you don't have to "finish" in order for there to be some sperm that escapes.
2 - something like 15% of all teen pregnancies are the result of just "messing around" and not actually having intercourse.
Sperm are hardy little buggers.
Also, you should be extra worried becuase if her period is a couple weeks away, she could've been ovulating when you had sex.
I hope that if she is pregnant, you'll do the right thing and be a responsible man and a good father.
I don't know how old you are, but if you are pregnant, just remember it's not the end of the world. If you just act responsibly, you're life will be fine.
And if you aren't, please convince your gf to go on the pill and ALWAYS, ALWAYS, ALWAYS use a condom.
Good luck to you.
:)
2006-12-10 05:55:29 · answer #2 · answered by Tiff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in the same situation and theres a lot of options, but theres something you have to remember, when you are having sex theres pre-*** that ejaculates from your penis before you orgasm - and yes - its possible she could get pregnant from this.
1.You could not worry about it for a couple weeks even though it will be in the back of your mind constantly and hope for the best.
2. They recently approved in Texas to sell the Morning After pill over the counter for about 20 bucks. This is an effective way to kill her egg, preventing any conception.
Check and see if you can buy this over the counter in your state, or you could always go to Planned Parenthood and buy it for 75 dollars.
Good luck, and next time wrap up.
2006-12-10 05:55:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're exceptionally stupid... Pregnant?! Why worry about such a miniscule detail? Have you never heard of STD's (a Sexually Transmitted Disease)?! Just because she CLAIMS to be a virgin, does not mean she is clean. AIDS (a prime example) is not just spread through sex. If she has come into contact with an infected persons blood, the chances are extremely high she has HIV/AIDS. Even from a ********, AIDS can be transmitted. Or, for all we know, she could have been muffed when somebody had a cold sore and now she has Herpes -AND IT'S PERMANENT! Also, during intercourse a tiny amount of sperm does leak, therefore there is a (small) chance she could have conceived... For now, worry about the fact you could have an STD. Get your self tested, and for your own sake, carry a condom with you!
2006-12-10 06:06:36 · answer #4 · answered by EbonyRose 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow... well since you were drunk, you may have THOUGHT that you didn't get it near her, but its always a possibility that you did. Lets hope that you didnt. If her period is late, it doesn't automatically mean that she's pregnant b/c sometimes it occurs irregularly. I would worry, especially if you are still very young: how would parents react, friends, you and your gf, etc how would it affect your relationship. Talk with your gf and discuss what options you have just in case your fears come true. This is something serious... I'm not saying to freak out, but definately don't take it lightly b/c you never know...
2006-12-10 05:59:19 · answer #5 · answered by Madamoiselle B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be some what worried, since precum can occur and still get her pregnant. Does she realize this happened? If not, you may want to say something. You can also find out by getting one of those pregnancy tests. why wait all the way til her period?
Next time, control your **** man. That is so not an excuse! some one should have been in control of thier drinking that night.
2006-12-10 05:52:36 · answer #6 · answered by bluestar_dreamsx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, girls can get pregnant from pre *** AND *** comes out while you are in the action of sex too :: Make sure she monitors herself to make sure her period comes on time :: She can get a pregnancy test in about 12 days to be extra positive. I'm not saying to not be worried but I am saying that use condoms ALL the time...dont take the risk...pregnancy scares are the worst
2006-12-10 05:53:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you both need to worry until that period comes. Chances are 50-50, and in the future, love-birds, remember the torture of these 2 weeks before you let things get out of hand (oops) again.
2006-12-10 05:56:41 · answer #8 · answered by Casperia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get her to take a pregnancy test. even though you didnt *** in her she could still be pregnant as men release small quantities of semen during sex without even realise. dont worry chances are shes not pregnant but take the tst just to be sure.
2006-12-10 05:53:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The chances of her being pregnant is pretty low, but it could be possible from a small amount of pre-ejaculate. If you missed the bullet, get her on birth control or use condoms.
2006-12-10 05:56:30 · answer #10 · answered by marchhare57 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋