2006-12-10 05:34:32 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
talk to him and if he is give him another chance and make him swear that he will never do that again. then if he does it again then dump him
2006-12-10 05:38:33 · answer #1 · answered by falawoods 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...sweety, let me break the illusion and make it perfectly clear: 98.7% of all relationships involving non married couples involves a third ( or fourth in some cases) party sharing in the joy the 2 of you have created amongst yourselves. A big part of this is from having pre marital sex. It is disasterous when sex is done when 2 are not married. You must be in love with that person only. A man cannot love u if he does not love GOD first. Then he loves himself and then knows how to love you and have patience to wait until marrige to have sex. Other than that, your suspicions are probably true, especially in the flirting area. And if u have cheated b4, don't trip...that would be hypocritical. Good luck and I hope this helps....
2006-12-10 13:57:42 · answer #2 · answered by William 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
Why do you suspect him cheating? If it is, because he goes away a lot or is not answering his phone, etc, try to go with him to where ever he is going. Try to spend more time with him. If he isn't up for that, sit him down and tell him you are not happy with his behaviour towards you. Don't go accusing him of cheating, that's going to either get him defensive or make him more inventive if he is cheating.
Find out why you think he is cheating and put yourself in that situation to find out if it really is that way. Investigate!
Good luck.
2006-12-10 13:41:04 · answer #3 · answered by Chava 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman intuition will always save her from years of pain and heartache. If you suspect him, than act on your womanly intuition and move on, because you can't be with someone you don't trust anyway. You're never going to be completely happy, in the back of your mind you're always going to suspect something no matter what, do what's best for you and move on.
2006-12-10 13:40:02 · answer #4 · answered by heaven_forsaken_dark_poet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...don't ask him if he is cheatingbecause most likely he is not going to tell the truth! You should spy but don't make yourself noticeable. Act normal about it, and if you see a change of what he is doing..for example: not calling you, canceling dates. Most likely he is cheating...but make sure you have proof because..if you beak up with him and hes not really cheating it could really hurt you and him.
2006-12-10 13:39:23 · answer #5 · answered by Jasmin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A womens intuition is always right :: If you suspect it, then he probably is :: You can waste the time and do the research but if you don't have the trust or the reassurance that he's being faithful...LEAVE!
Good Luck
2006-12-10 13:38:48 · answer #6 · answered by classy_uic_chic11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shoot him.
lol...no.. don't........
Pray about it and SPY!!! Snoop around. Look at all his computer history and in his drawers and his phone history... If there are NO or little numbers in his phone be suspicious. If there is no internet history, be suspicious. If he says he's going to work- go to his work. Is his car there?
You have a right to investigate in your relationship.
People will say ask him. Do it...... But that's a bunch of BS because someone who is doing wrong is not going to admit it because of the shame.
2006-12-10 13:39:05 · answer #7 · answered by Phatstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you can spy on him or you can think about why you dont trust him. have you ever trusted anyone and this thing just smells wierd and your radar is going nuts? what if he is you will break up, what if he isnt will your relationship thrive after this? my advise would be to trust yourself and your intuition and tell him i think your cheating and that means the trust is breaking down so im leaving you.
2006-12-10 13:38:38 · answer #8 · answered by gsschulte 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
three things:
1) check his cell phone calls
2) check his text messages
(these two are tough though because its possible to delete things off your cell phone)
3) crack into his email....i would only suggest this one if you really think he's cheating for a reason, because if youre wrong, you could get in a lot of trouble for doing it
2006-12-10 13:45:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do nothing at the moment,but be alert .keep it cool but observe all his actions and behaviour,if he delineates from the usual normal stuff that he does,open your eyes,BUT never ,never go thru his fone or personal stuff.he can't keep secrets for long,it will come out pretty soon if he is indeed cheating...
2006-12-10 13:38:17 · answer #10 · answered by dra shelley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say nothing. Don't spy. Stay calm. Just chill for a while Then if you feel it he probably is. Dump him. Once a cheater always a cheater.
2006-12-10 13:39:17 · answer #11 · answered by Smurfetta 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋