My ex and I broke up about a month and a half ago, and I still want him back. Whenever we talk/IM eachother, he starts off really mean, calling me names and saying i make him mad. His reasons are the way I act at school, which is pretty crazy (the way I act). This happens when ever we communicate. Yet every single time, it ends up he's not mad at me anymore, he wants to come over and spend time with me. He is going through a rough time with his parents, work, and school. Should I try talking to him more to sort it out, wait for him to figure it out on his own, or should I give up?
2006-12-10 05:28:34 · 9 answers · asked by Jess . 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you're a schoolgirl, why not enjoy your childhood and forget having "relationships" with immature little boys who are nasty to you anyway
2006-12-10 05:31:48 · answer #1 · answered by monkeynuts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try backing off a little bit...just cuz you want him back doesn't mean you have to talk to him every single day.Let him know you're there if he needs someone to talk to. Also I would seriously take a look at the way you act at school if it bothers him so bad and see if maybe you need to change or if it's just him. You say you act pretty crazy at school maybe his concern about that is a maturity factor.I wouldn't know cuz I'm not there to see what "pretty crazy" is for you but it's something to think about
2006-12-10 05:39:28 · answer #2 · answered by fancyone762000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, no! Don't get back with someone if it's just going to calls friction. He thinks you're crazy, and he can be a jerk calling you names. All of the kiddie stuff is not worth it, and will just lead to more arguements. Don't rely on him to make a decision like that, because, most likely if he does, doesn't mean he'll change his tempter and way he lashes out at you. Find someone who can mellow you out, who is more compatible with you. But yes, you can still be there for him as a friend. Maybe he'll appreciate you more!
Krazy Libra
2006-12-10 05:34:09 · answer #3 · answered by krazy_libra_from_ac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him come over then!!
Tell him how you feel in those tender times and try to compromise - the way you act at school and the way he treats you at first will both change for example.
You can totally get him back. Just gotta try!!
2006-12-10 05:31:33 · answer #4 · answered by Phatstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have made the break away from him then keep it that way. he needs to sort his life out before he can have some sort of half way decent relationship. read tips on dating and relationships to help you more on this site
2006-12-10 05:32:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no,don't give up on him,hang on.he is undergoing some rough time himself.the more you should be holding on cos he needs you now.every relationship has its ups and downs,it is not all bed of roses,you will undergo lots and lots of trials,rough sailing.but believe me later on you will realize how wonderful it is when you've survived all of these,and you still love each other!!!good luck!
2006-12-10 05:33:04 · answer #6 · answered by dra shelley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like his plate is too full and he is taking his frustrations out on you, tell him you understand he is under a lot of stress but you can not accept the disrespectful way he treats you
2006-12-10 05:32:27 · answer #7 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit back, wait, stop calling him, don't take his calls..
if he leaves hurtful messages on your voicemail..erase them...tune him out..&
it will work out...you may not have a chance of being anything more than friends, but friends are good...
2006-12-10 05:33:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would give up--find someone that's not so crazy!
2006-12-10 05:31:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋