Ok, so my ex and I have been dating off and on for the last few weeks. She recently got kicked out of her apartment. Since she lived with me at one point i told her that if she couldn't find anywhere else, she could stay with me until she got her own place. Ok, so she moved in and everything was fine until i was talking to a mutual friend and he mentioned something about her dating some other guy. I wasn't really pissed but hurt, so i asked her about it and she denied it. i felt relieved until i get an email from some guy in Colorado telling me to leave his GF alone. I was like WTF! So, in my pissed off stupor I cracked open her email and read some pretty interesting stuff, where she refers to this guy as someone she is dating. I felt pretty heart broken, because we were getting pretty serious ourselves, granted I brought it upon myself, but i had to know. So, she comes home from work and I told her what i did. She cried and told me she would never trust me again, what should i do?
2006-12-10 05:27:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i can understand your situation; and wat u did was pretty much wat anyone in your situation would do. if she was serious bout you, i dont see any reason tat she was pissed tat you read her mails. but then again, probably it took her by surprise. so give her time to digest everything. there s nothing to worry bout tat colorado guy; he s jus a frustrated person; jus leave him alone. responding to him will be wasting your own time and making matters worse! so ignore him.
give your girl her space. everything will be fine!
good luck and god bless!
2006-12-10 05:33:35 · answer #1 · answered by sunny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cracking someone email isn't right and you can't take that back but you can't ignore what you found either.
You were doing her a favor and she's been playing you. Don't let her turn it back on you like you are the bad guy. She sounds like drama.. Tell her she has a week to get out and then be done with her.
2006-12-10 13:37:55 · answer #2 · answered by not*a*placebo*81 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do the Landmark Forum
2006-12-10 13:29:49 · answer #3 · answered by raemirhue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait, was she dating you and him? Or did you let her move in, knowing you still had feelings for her?
The best thing would to wait and let things cool off. Probably best if she can move out.
Be honest and tell her that you like her, but don't like her lying.
2006-12-10 13:30:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you remember where you lost it? Maybe if you retrace your steps you will find it again. Look under the couch cushions too.
2006-12-10 13:34:39 · answer #5 · answered by Poster22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to hit the road! You are being soooo used.
2006-12-10 13:35:36 · answer #6 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes,just show you are sincere,and she will realize you meant it.
2006-12-10 13:34:54 · answer #7 · answered by dra shelley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOPE... MOVE ON DUDE
2006-12-10 13:33:47 · answer #8 · answered by julia1975 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋