2006-12-10 05:23:11 · 16 answers · asked by lilsexyhersey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How old are you two? You don't have sex until you are prepared for it. If he is pressuring you and you are under 18 it best to let him go. have you been dating him long ? Think of these things, before making a decision. Good to talk to your mom if young. Good Luck Pem
2006-12-10 06:09:56 · answer #1 · answered by Patricia M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you, say this to him: If you love me, you wouldn't ask me. Tell him how you feel about Sex. If he leaves you, then you know he didn't love you the way you deserve to be loved. Don't drop your high moral standards for a roll in the hay! (for sex) Believe me, it is not worth it. There are way too many good guys out there just waiting for a wonderful person like you. Many guys love a girl that stands up for her beliefs and has morals. Hang in there. You won't regret your decision. Sex is not everything. You can not go back if you sleep with him!! Think about it.
2006-12-10 05:32:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that if he loved you, he wouldn't be pushing you for sex.
This is a two way street. When you are in a relationship, one person shouldn't try to pressure the other into doing anything they don't want to do. If and when you are ready, you will let him know. All he is doing is making you uncomfortable, and putting you in a bad situation. If you give in, you may hate him, and yourself, in the morning. If you don't give in, he'll only get more frustrated at his lack of success in his efforts. Either he needs to back off, be patient, and let you do only as much as you feel comfortable doing, or you need to find a new boyfriend.
2006-12-10 05:27:38 · answer #3 · answered by welches_grape_jelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really loved you he wouldn't be pressuring you. If you don't want to do then don't! Just because ya'll love each other doesn't mean you have to have sex! Yall can show affection in different ways....trust me...you will know when its the right time to have sex.
2006-12-10 05:31:08 · answer #4 · answered by Jasmin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T... If he really loved you he wouldn't be trying to force you or make you feel guilty by telling you that "if you loved me". Honestly, this boy sounds like bad news. What he is doing is called sexual coersion by the way. Look it up and make your own choice. But DO NOT under any cercumstances do it to make him happy. Do it because you really want to and not because you feel guilty, or feel like you should or owe him or anything like that. My Advice: Find A New Boyfriend That Truly Cares About You!!!!
2006-12-10 05:28:17 · answer #5 · answered by Babygirl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow RED FALG RIGHT THERE!! he said that! (if you love him then you should have sex with him!!!) oh my gosh! love ISNT bsed on sex! and ONLY do it when YOU feel ready too!> if he keeps pressuring you then thats the clue that, thats all he's after
LEAVE IF HE KEEPS GIVING YOU THAT CRAP and if he pulls the "im leaving cause you wont do me" then he was never meant to be and you shoudl be happy you werent used@
i suggest you give him one more shot. or tell him to shut up and say you dont feel ready.a IF HE REALLY LOVES YOU then he should respect you.
but it sounds liek thats al he's after by your statement......
2006-12-10 05:27:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend really loved you, then he wouldn't pressure you to do things that you don't want to do or that you are not ready for. Unfortunately, you are not in a very good relationship, get out!
2006-12-10 05:25:23 · answer #7 · answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess He also is using the line of if you Love him have sex, well you can say back to him, well if you really love me, you can wait :O)
Good Luck.
2006-12-10 05:28:26 · answer #8 · answered by Antonio M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is a personal decision... U make it. you can love someone & not have sex with them, its for u, when your ready. Ready emotionally, physically & ready for the responsibility. If ur boyfriend, is pressuring u or wants to have sex & ur not ready, then ur not ready for it & he has to wait or hit the road. ps idk your bf... but i do know that some guys will say whatever they have to, to have sex or get what they want...
2006-12-10 05:27:51 · answer #9 · answered by *Spam* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont think love=sex. i think u should tell him that if he truley loves he can wait for at least a little while untile u can make u ur mind on what "u" want to do.
2006-12-10 05:30:25 · answer #10 · answered by alska 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋