Dumped: what did you learn?

Question

so i got dumped....i know i must focus on the positive light on being dumped....so what are the positives after being dumped by someone who was attracted to you, but didnt find you interesting????

how do you make the best out of rejection??

Answer 1

I got dumped 5 months ago.After getting dumped,i learnt to stand on my own feet.I was emotionally dependant on my ex.I learnt not to get emotionally dependant on another person coz i will be devastated if i do so.I learnt not to give oppurtunity to other person to hurt me.I feel more liberated.I feel the joy of detaching myself from my ex's strings.So no more getting hurt by his wierd questions.i feel good about myself coz i dont feel treated like a doormat anymore.I learnt to love myself a lot.my personality development began after i got dumped.
I dont feel any pressure of pleasing another person,i am off that burden.All whom i gotta please is myself which i consider easier compared to pleasing another person.You no longer have to adjust yourself to his/her lifestyle.You dont have to struggle too hard to meet thier wants and needs by letting your needs go.This is absolutely a wonderful time to make the best use of ''me time'',you dont have think about anybody else but you.Love you more than ever.You will also feel complete or whole all by yourself without struggling for someone else to make you whole.
In short i would say lesser tensions.You will learn to value yourself as a human bieng and not as an object like how you were treated by your ex.
You will love yourself more.You are free.