So there's this guy. I liked him before I found out he had a girlfriend. So now everyone's telling me to step back. And well, ok, I guess I agree with them, what with him having a girlfriend then also moving away. Anyways, I was thinking about giving him a farewell/Christmas gift since he's leaving a few days before Christmas. Some people have given me an idea for a memorable gift, because this gift is my only chance for now to leave him something to remember me by.
Anyways, here's the question, since he lives in another city, should I:
a.) Tell him that I'm coming to town to give him this gift
b.) Pretend that I'm gonna be in his town for some meeting that just came out of nowhere, and say that I'd just like to give him this gift if he has a few minutes to spare
c.) .......
2006-12-10 05:15:12 · 7 answers · asked by Chia Pet 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
c.) Go to his place without telling him, and just leave the gift at the receptionist of his apartment building, and leave a note saying like: "I happened to be in town, so decided to drop off this gift. didn't call you u cause i know you'll be busy with packing and last minute Christmas shopping", OR
d.) if you guys have a better idea for me to do than the above.....
Thanks for any ideas you can give me! ^__^
2006-12-10 05:16:38 · update #1
To answer some of the questions:
- it's impossible for his gf to open the door cause she's in another country
- he came to the city just for a 6 month temporary job thing and now his going back
- never knew about the gf till i saw her picture at his apartment
- before seing the picture, i've kinda hinted asking him if he has a gf but he's never directly answer that question, usually avoids answering it.....
2006-12-10 05:30:54 · update #2
Stop sweetie think about what you are doing , if this was your boy friend would you want someone giving your boy friend a gift that you didnt know about ? So why didnt he tell you about his girlfriend ? He plays games watch out Good Luck
2006-12-10 05:23:07 · answer #1 · answered by janice a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even though he has a girlfriend you should be cute and show up at his door step with a gift for him..but yet again if his girlfriend happens to open the door..or i think you should send him a letter and say meet me ...blah blah somewhere and be there with the gift....expessially if this guys worth it<3
2006-12-10 13:22:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best gift you can give him is to let go, and you are not any where near that,I do not know what your dreams are but for right now he is not the answer, and you are only fooling your self
2006-12-10 13:24:24 · answer #3 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
B. that way you can maybe get to see him and see what happens
2006-12-10 13:20:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
c
2006-12-10 13:20:40 · answer #5 · answered by istina jap 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good one
2006-12-10 13:17:59 · answer #6 · answered by × 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Also you can talk with him,or email him.
2006-12-10 13:21:03 · answer #7 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋