Yes to SEX??

Question

My g/f was raped(see other ?) and since then she has said that she wants to have sex, like b4. I don't want to tho b/c she still needs to get over what happened. Should I give in to her?? Will it help her heal??
I don't want to make everything harder, but she says she feels bad cuz our relationship is not as much "fun" as b4. I tried to tell her I feel our relationship is better, but she doesn't believe me.

Answer 1

Since this has only been a few months ago you should tell her you will be more than happy to wait until she is more confident with herself. I read your other questions and it sounds to me like she still needs more time.Make sure she completely understands that you will be happy to wait until she's really and for sure ready.By jumping into this too soon she can create more problems than she wants.If she still insists on going through with this and you decide to give in, just take it really slow and tell her you will stop at anytime if she wants.

Answer 2

Do as she say. It is a healing therapy. In this therapy you are required to undergo same event over and over again which have caused you pain. And so facing it again helps you to accept the event and then psychologically fight against it. She needs therapy and who could be the best choice with her but you.

Answer 3

you should do whatever makes her happy psychologically, emotionally and phisically.. i know it will help her heal

Answer 4

ENJOY IT SON! OR SHE'LL BE UNHAPPY AND DUMP YO KINDERGARDEN AXE

Answer 5

dont pressure her, if she says stop, stop. she may also have flashbacks of her rapist dont be suprised if she hits you...

Answer 6

Are you gay?