Should I like a guy I met online but not in real life this much?

Question

I met a guy online and I find him very interesting.

We were supposed to meet in real life but he has not come to visit me.

It is much more complicated than I can explain in a few sentences but I do like him but I sometimes feel like he only views me sexually. But then again we also have 4 hour phone conversations about life in general.

I really don't know what to do, I have given him an altimatium before but I really didnt want to know the answer so I disapeared.

I like him a lot, but am I wasting my time when we have been talking for 5 years online on and off (we both are in early twenties now)

Answer 1

Ok, unless you know him in real life you shouldn't get into anything serious because he could be waiting for the right moment to meet you, snatch you up, and never allow you to see daylight again. Some people have really weird mental problems and this is just likely to be one. Who knows, he could of got somebody to talk on the phone for him and he could be a really weird only guy who wants to do nasty stuff to woman. I have a real strong feeling against these kinds of people. Instead of waiting to meet this internet guy go out into the world and meet somebody you know is going to be available to go over to his house and watch late night TV shows and eat popcorn together. But that's just my opinion, I don't believe in long distant relationships.

Answer 2

maybe he is not what u think he is . he might be lieing about everything you talk about . maybe u should just stay friends on the internet.