with phone in one hand and a cup of tea in other and has a wax in his ears... he gets angry and don't talk to me. says, he doesnt like my atitude and me changing him. what shell I do?
2006-12-10 03:50:26 · 17 answers · asked by alca b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's a man so get over the farting and messing up his clothes it happens and i'm sure you have farted and messed up clothes along the way.. there was some reason he became your boyfriend in the first place so go back to why you liked him and quit trying to change him.. you can't change a man no matter how hard you try and if you love him you wouldn't be trying at all
2006-12-10 03:53:31 · answer #1 · answered by ypsilady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to him that you're not trying to change him, you're merely making suggestions that pertain to his personal hygiene and his etiquette. If he cannot eat without staining a shirt (I understand it happens sometimes but if this is an everyday thing) then he needs to learn manners and the correct way to eat. Farting is a natural occurrence, can't stop many men from doing it in front of you; once they're comfortable they'll do it around you— my fiancee and I do in front of eachother because we're not embarrased and sometimes a person really needs to let loose. However, wax in ears is disgusting... if he doesn't take care of it he can get an infection; that happened to me as a child. Also, driving with something in your hand is dangerous. Explain you're just looking out for him and his safety. An accident can easily occur when he does that..
2006-12-10 03:56:09 · answer #2 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're asking too a lot from him. All adult males fart at situations, are messy, and irresponsible each and every so often. and what's with the wax element? i'm confident you've wax on your ear, too. Heck, each and anybody does! the in elementary words element i ought to confer with him about is him drving including his telephone in a unmarried hand and tea in the different. i ought to tell him that this is risky, and also you do not opt for him to smash in the destiny. except that, there is not some thing incorrect including your boyfriend. he's only human.
2016-11-30 09:41:23 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you need to find a new Bf and leave this normal average type of guy to his farting beltching flee ridden life! I'm sure he leaves the wax in his ears to deaden the sound of the constant whinging
2006-12-10 03:58:54 · answer #4 · answered by benji 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol, if you are serious, I'd say, dump the poor guy.
If he thinks minor things like that is "changing him", he is not gonna hold on to any girl for any amount of time.
2006-12-10 03:55:43 · answer #5 · answered by rostov 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him is the quick answer.
You will never change him - if you don't like him as he is - if he has too many bad habits then he will probably never be up to your standards, so be kind to him and yourself now and end it.
2006-12-10 03:55:01 · answer #6 · answered by Star 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me he is a slob.
And he likes being a slob.
So you can either accept him as he is or you can move on!
Unfortunately that is all you can do!!
2006-12-10 03:54:09 · answer #7 · answered by kiku 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone farts enjoy this natural thing and move on
2006-12-10 03:55:09 · answer #8 · answered by Mowgli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he should no better to disrespect you like that it not funny it very disrespect tell him where fart come from and them he think twice about farting again it come off you no what.
2006-12-10 03:55:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Jesus, it's taken me ages to decipher what you have written. Men are babies they act like babies, so treat him like one. Hay ho. You can't live with them, you can't live without them.
2006-12-10 04:06:59 · answer #10 · answered by chutney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋