Ok, last year (i know its a long time) there was a girl that im pretty sure liked me. I never talked to her because I was to shy and really didnt know what to say to her. Now I have a really big crush on her, and I cant even get her to look at me anymore. I know that she probably felt rejected when I didnt talk to her, and I know that that I have to talk to her to make things better. Assuming she doesnt have a boyfriend, do I have a chance with her if I tell her this?
2006-12-10 03:48:23 · 24 answers · asked by smarties161221 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just ask her out for a drink, see how it goes
2006-12-10 03:50:20 · answer #1 · answered by nat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but girls get over boys really fast. Maybe a simple "Hello" is all you need to start something. But before that, make sure that she really does not have a boyfriend. Maybe just she is shy so she is not noticing you, but there is no use in wondering if you do not try.
2006-12-10 11:56:00 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just strike up a conversation with her and become friends and see if there becomes a chance of becoming anything else. I wouldn't tell her you have a crush on her yet. Wait until you see if she has any feelings for you and once you start talking to her if you really want to pursue anything further than friendship.
2006-12-10 11:52:16 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slowly. Just walk up to her and start talking about things and find out what you have in common. You may decide she's an airhead or that she is absolutely wonderful and vice versa. You NEVER know until you open your mouth and start talking. Good luck with it all honey.
2006-12-10 11:54:33 · answer #4 · answered by righteousrose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure u have a chance with her.. just tell her straight up that for the last year you have wanted to work up the nerve to talk to her but your shyness has kept you back but now that u have worked up the nerve to talk to her would she like to go to dinner.. don't analzye it just say what you feel and honestly most woman like a guy whos shy it makes u interesting and mysterious..
2006-12-10 11:51:19 · answer #5 · answered by ypsilady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the person. Some girls will accept what you will say, and some will never accept it. Is she forgiving? Is she a nice person? Then you might have a chance to make it right.
2006-12-10 11:52:52 · answer #6 · answered by truthsayer777 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes just simply be honest with her as you have to all of these readers,bc you might not ever get that chance again in life do what your heart tells you to bc in that case you can never go wrong " A heart wont lie"
2006-12-10 11:51:05 · answer #7 · answered by Angie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course. you will never find out unless you give it a try. people regret something they COULD have done more than regretting what they HAVE done. all i have to say is, don't hang onto the past and dont let your past keep you from doing what you want to do. go for it. i wish you the best of luck :)
2006-12-10 11:53:17 · answer #8 · answered by ! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres always a chance... its up to you to go and show her what a great guy you are and sweep her off her feet... so to speak... never say never when it comes to love and the opposite sex... how are you going to know if it would work unless you try... goodluck and I hope this helps!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-10 11:52:10 · answer #9 · answered by Sandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hard question. I'd think you still have a chance, she probably still likes you, just doesnt think she has a chance.
2006-12-10 11:51:29 · answer #10 · answered by Christine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u like her then show her not by telling her "i like u" but by flirting with her. maybe ask her if she wants to hang out with some friends and then if u spend time with her then she might notice that u are nice and like u more then before!?
2006-12-10 11:53:04 · answer #11 · answered by surfin_chic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋