i asked for women advice. i liked this girl for 5 years but we were always dating other people. i have loved her this entire time but never said anything. it was really hard to get ahold of her and i just wanst sure why. we lived in differant states and i was just wondering if i should let her go or tell her i loved her.
everyone answered that it was too late and i was in friend mode.
I FINALLY GOT AHOLD OF HER TWO DAYS AGO AND TOLD HER I LOVED HER AND SO ON..... SHE WAS IN TEARS AND SAID SHE FELT THE SAME WAY ABOUT ME BUT SHE DIDNT THINK I LIKED HER LIKE THAT SO SHE DIDNT WANT TO SAY ANYHTING AND RUIN OR RELATIONSHIP.
NEEDLESS TO SAY WE ARE NOW TOGETHER.
WHY WERE ALL THOSE WOMEN WRONG?????
2006-12-10 03:46:21 · 13 answers · asked by Steven Colbert 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Congratulations. I had the same situation with my boyfriend. We've known each other for 6 years, loved each other but just started dating about 5 and a half months ago.
If I had read your question before, I would have told you it's never too late. But obviously you didn't need the advice because you still went for it. Best of luck with the relationship.
2006-12-10 04:01:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think in this kind a forum, you are more likely to get a more realistic, albeit harsh answer. 9 times out of 10 the situation you described would not have turned into mutual love. From what I have read, people here tell it like it is rather then being wishy-washy and giving answers that may potentially give false hope..... glad to hear they were all so wrong :)
2006-12-10 11:55:01 · answer #2 · answered by Clarissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because I wasn't one of those who answered your previous question :)
Could have told you that if both parties are shy / afraid of ruining the friendship, the onus is on the male species to chase :) Some guys expect or hope the female would chase them, but this is never going to happen if the female is of the type that upholds the ideal that usually men should make the first move.
If you hadn't made the move and she is not the type of female who chases the guy, you would have to accept your lot.
So... good for you, at least, that you finally plucked up the courage! :)
Some guys never do.
2006-12-10 11:52:20 · answer #3 · answered by Ming Ju 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I never seen that question but I would have told you to express your feelings for her. It's never too late! Also, it's always best to take chances then to just move on right away.
It's a good thing you didn't listen to those women that answered your question. Good Luck!
2006-12-10 11:51:23 · answer #4 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey buddy all those women that ur saying are wrong .. they're just trying to help .. i mean it's still up to you if u want to listen to them .. but the last decision is still up to u to decide. soo why is it a big deal to u if they're wrong? i mean u got ur ghurl .. right? so wats the matter? or u just wanted to be a jerk thats why u wanted to update ur q's? something is wrong here. neweyz, well im glad u got ur ghurl so just be happy and its not worth trying to make a big deal out this!! =D *don't be a jerk! im sure ur not! ;)* so let it go...
2006-12-10 11:56:58 · answer #5 · answered by mizz ADOHRable 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their answers were not necessarily wrong, they may have been basing their answers on their own experiences. Just be happy that your scenario worked out for the best. Hopefully you will have a great relationship.
2006-12-10 11:56:05 · answer #6 · answered by jerrycarr99029 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In most cases, the women would have been correct. Every detail you gave pointed to that conclusion. Just be happy that your case was an exception.
2006-12-10 11:50:19 · answer #7 · answered by Lecta 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think if you are willing to put out your question, it's up to you whether you accept the answers to have any credence at all..obviously you didn't' like what they said and did what you wanted to do regardless..do you want them all to apologize or do you just like rubbing their noses in it?
2006-12-10 11:54:00 · answer #8 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well.....we don't know you or your relationship fully.
What did you expect?
Exprets on realtionship???
So people were wrong
GET OVER IT!
2006-12-10 11:50:22 · answer #9 · answered by *only~wishful~thinking* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they never thought it would be possible for u two to be together
2006-12-10 11:50:55 · answer #10 · answered by lol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋