first time?

Question

i have just been asked out for the first time a a girl in my class. we are friends but not best pals. we do live in different worlds. i love science, rock and pissing about with my mates(mainly males) she is into french, choirs and is dignified. her asking me out has come from out of the blue. i don't know what to do, since i haved lived in my comfort zone i don't know what to do.

thanks for the reply. i am not an aussie but lived in fiji, japan and colombia for half my life. i think i will take the risk

Answer 1

Think of this as a great OPPORTUNITY to get to know someone very different from yourself. You are a kid, and kids are blessed with being able to explore new and different aspects of life and new and different people. She's curious about you and wants to check out somebody very different from her. Go for it!

Ever hear the term "opposites attract"? Give it a try, go out with her.

As long as you are a GENTLEMAN and refrain from overt sexual come ons, and as long as she acts like a lady, which you say she very likely is- you describe her as being dignified, I think this date with an opposite will go well.

HAVE FUN while you're still young and have time for all sorts of social exploration!

Answer 2

Hey, obviously she likes you for who you are - not who she thinks you are, unless you put on a facade at school.

Maybe she's rebelling against her strict upbringing and sees you as a rebel?

Go ahead and date her; you'll soon figure out if you have anything in common, but at least you'll have had the experience of dating. This will make you more confident in the future - and may make you more attractive to other girls! Just remember to treat her with respect, even if the two of you don't get along.

Answer 3

Oh welcome to the wondrous world of dating!
You will probably never ever find a woman who is exactly like you. You both will have different interest, or different personalities or different values or something.
Going out and meeting different people and their interests is fun. You don't have to change yourself for her, and she doesn't have to change for you, but if you like to hang out together, go for it. You might become better friends, maybe even a couple, but that;s what dates are about - testing the water and seeing what fits and what doesn't.
In short - go for it. If you didn't like it, don't do it again with her.

Answer 4

Well, its time to get out of that comfort zone. Go out have fun, meet new people and let others know you better.

Answer 5

Take a risk, go for it. She's asking you out because she wants to take a risk, and you present quite an attractive risk. she wants to break out of the strictly scheduled order of her life and do something dangerous. congratulations on being her selection for doing something like that. carpe diem, mate, and see what comes out of it.

Answer 6

Get out of your comfort zone and take a chance. What can hurt?

Answer 7

Try to check out the things she likes. then talk to her about some of the things that interest you. For all you know she might like to do stuff that u do too.
Just be respectful to her and dont do anything to hurt her feelings.
:)

Answer 8

Go out with her! Who says you have to change the way you are?
In fact, she probably asked you out because she likes those things about you.

Answer 9

you really have nothing to lose... other then mayb a couple of hours out of your comfort zone

Answer 10

give her a chance. soemtimes having a lot of differences is a good thing, it means youve got more to talk about.