At my school, there is this guy that has so much in common with me- we like the same TV shows, video games, political views, etc. We talk alot between some classes and my friends are like "what is up with you guys?" I'm not sure what really is up, but I'm so curious to find out! I want to ask him if he likes me, but I don't know how to ask him without looking like a real idiot- and at the same time, I don't want to look like a slut because we've only really been talking since November. Perhaps is it too early to say anything, or is it the perfect timing?
2006-12-10 03:39:04 · 8 answers · asked by no_sun_shining 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly, speaking as I guy, I'd say he probably likes you. I'd also say that things between you are working out pretty o.k.; i.e., you are talking and getting to know each other. I'd say with respect to him, keep doing what you are doing. Get to know him better and well, let things unfold in a way you're comfortable with.
The real problem is actually your friends. I don't know how to manage them, ... Friends tend to do things like blab things and cause headaches. It's not necessarily a good thing to tell the word, via the girl-o-phone that you like him. On the otherhand, I don't know if its a good thing to tell the world, via the girl-o-phone you don't like him. I suppose you can tell your friends, you like talking to the guy and hope they are not gonna read everything into it.
P.S. DO NOT INVOLVE ANYBODY ELSE. ASK HIS FRIENDS OR YOUR FRIENDS. Don't feel bad about letting things take time. There is no rush, seriously.
2006-12-10 03:49:45 · answer #1 · answered by rostov 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask him if he likes you?
Boys are not so talkative as girls, so maybe you will run out of subjects to discuss. Or, you can wait untill you feel that time when you don't know what you can talk about, and you can ask him then.
In the meantime, try to find more things about him. Does he has a girlfriend, how is his family, where does he lives, what he likes doing besides school etc. etc.? Invite him to your house!!! That's a great sugestion, if he does not get it, he's stupid!!! Show him your house, your family, your room! You will feel comfortable there. And only in your most comfortable times you'll feel capable of asking him something important... anything important.
Be his friend... don't be afraid to be a boy's friend.
Boys are humans too... what do you think they are??? Klingons??? (I'm joking...)
2006-12-10 03:51:39 · answer #2 · answered by iDontKnowWhatToDo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you know what things and shows he likes,, then just be with him at any time (or create a situation) in which you have a mutual liking or likeness.... Then say.."I like (love) this tooooooo much, and you too," If he's smart, he'll surely ask you "what do you mean". This will give you two options,,, either you tell him straight HOW MUCH YOU LIKE HIM...or just beat the crap out of it and....say... "i was JUST talking about THIS".... Just feel yourself which way you'll look more stupid. ..Prefer the first way,,, its much less stupid than the second evasively coward way.
2006-12-10 03:48:06 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like the George Strait song, write him a note and say,
"Do you love me, do you wanna be my friend?
And if you do, well then don't be afraid to take me by the hand
If you want to.
I think this is how love goes, check yes or no."
If anything he will think you are creative.
2006-12-10 03:45:23 · answer #4 · answered by righteousrose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, First find out if you really like him. If your too nervous to ask him if he likes you,then ask his best friend... Ff y'all have been talking as much as you claim, then he has probably told his best friend about you... If you are nervous to ask his friend, then wait for him to make the first move. HOPE THIS HELPS....
2006-12-10 03:47:00 · answer #5 · answered by May 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if u r not sure pl wait for some time. sine you are talking only a month should wait some more
2006-12-10 03:42:25 · answer #6 · answered by smartcamal1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell a friend to ask him if he likes you and c what happens. good luck :)
2006-12-10 03:42:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, ask yourself do YOU like him?
2006-12-10 03:41:01 · answer #8 · answered by ! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋