Well i have observed this thing since my childhood. During Schooling aswell all my classmates looks quite older too me. I used too be among the shortest & the slimmest guys in the class. That happen in college aswell. Well this has affected me a lot. Now its hindering my career. I do twice the amount of work then my colleagues but all the promotions goes to them. When i talk to my boss he says comeone you r too young, i can't promote u nobody 'll listen to u . Thats the kind of remarks i get. Now i m totally frustated & sometimes feels like commiting suicide. Plz help me.
2006-12-10 03:08:28 · 10 answers · asked by thehotelier123 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
What about using those youthful looks to your advantage? I don't know if India even has such a thing, but I've just re-played five years of "21 Jump Street," a TV show from the late 1980s about undercover cops in high schools. They were chosen from those members of the police academy classes who looked young enough to get away with it. The story starts with Johnny Depp as a young cop who has trouble getting respect. One perpetrator exclaimed to the older cop: "Keep him away from me. He makes me feel like a child molester."
Can you think of other careers where looking young is a decided advantage? Acting and modeling are the obvious ones, but what about the less obvious ones, like sales?
In any case, don't worry about it: the problem will solve itself, and then you will be at an important advantage. Think what it has done for Johnny Depp!!!
2006-12-10 03:21:25 · answer #1 · answered by auntb93again 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 20 n look 15,i know when i get older i'm gonna look good n still get the young pretty girls but u gotta let people know when u are in charge,if they joke about u give them a serious face,get ignorant if u have to but dont get too mean but let them know that u not some1 who can get walked over
2006-12-10 03:14:12 · answer #2 · answered by Young boi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I m additionally 28 yet appear as if an 18 365 days previous... i won't advise u procedures of outfits yet a metamorphosis in approach. Luv urself. If u will experience undesirable approximately ur looks others will additionally do the same. There r one thousand others who r in significant positions yet seem timid n youthful. U wont have confidence the IT head of our enterprise used to look like a peon yet all of us enjoyed him coz he became into very friendly n heat. U greater helpful connect a well-being midsection. have confidence me this might b actually helpful.
2016-10-18 01:43:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should try and speak to your boss about the promotions you've noticed he's given to the people who don't do half the work you do and maybe he'll understand you better, and another thing is that what he's doing is discrimination of age. You could sue. Good Luck just don't kill yourself.
2006-12-10 03:21:00 · answer #4 · answered by Sally C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your look, change your attitude. This is hard, you can shave your head, add gray, get glasses, dress more professional (grown up) . Attitude also reflects age, don't take no for an answer, if you are capable let them know, you can go somewhere else or you should be compensated, it is risky but what is the alternative.
2006-12-10 03:24:52 · answer #5 · answered by James S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you could change your hairstyle to a shorter, more conservative look. Try wearing glasses...if you can grow facial hair, then grow a nice, respectable goatee. Dress older...polo shirts, khaki pants, dress shoes...
Walk with your back straight, with your head held high, and look people in the eye while speaking to them. Good luck!
2006-12-10 03:18:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no,no,no, that means your gonna be hot when your older and not all old and wrinkly!!!
but about your job then maybe should go and get a better job were they respect you..go on interviews and if you get another job go ahead n give your 2 weeks notice!don't try to do something crazy over a good thing:-)
2006-12-10 03:26:08 · answer #7 · answered by liza 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLease don't do anything rash. There is nothing wrong with the way you look. When your peers are old and wrinkled, you are going to look half their age. Be proud...let your boss see that! You're time will come...
2006-12-10 03:19:45 · answer #8 · answered by Milkaholic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmm hot! I love guys who are slender short and boyish. ♥ dont kill urself, there are gals who will love you. or you could go to the gym and work out.
2006-12-10 03:11:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
cheer up
2006-12-10 03:30:24 · answer #10 · answered by sabrina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋