Im in my 20's and i read in some books about relationships. Is it true that when your dating a guy and you want the man to be after you more ,that the guy will really chase after the woman if she suddenly shows that she is going out more with guy friends, don't give booty, or call as often as she did. Im just curious if that really works like a charm as these books state?
2006-12-10 03:05:48 · 16 answers · asked by hersheybar99 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you should stop reading the books and start talking to the guy you like.
2006-12-10 03:08:23 · answer #1 · answered by happytone365 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi, in my opinion, normal guys think about sex every other minute. And most also put women down when only guys and NO WOMEN are around. I believe one big reason they do this is because girls hold the "stop" card, and use all sorts of tricks to get what they want. If you play tricks, you will get a normal guy who talks you down when women are not around. Plus maybe he will know a few tricks to use on you !! Lies most likely. Every woman on the dating internet sites lists honesty as the number one or two thing they are looking for in a relationship. Your choice. Oh also check out national stats on how much cheating goes on. You will be knocked over. it seems to be an endless circle. good luck Chas
2006-12-10 03:21:07 · answer #2 · answered by Charllenger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure about the "goin' out with alota guyz" part, but what I do know & very sure about iz that at the start of any relationship, therez alwayz a "chaser" and a "chasee" lol, itz called "playin' hard to get", & most gurlz who do this get the guy head over heelz for them!! & vice versa, so yeah, it'z true, playin' hard to get iz a no.1 charm in any "new" relationship, but itz a big NO-NO after the relationship developez. Itz a good start-off method, but thatz it , n'about goin with other guyz, don't do it!!!! "good" guyz don't like it , unless ur dating a guy who only wantz 2have fun.
Good luck!
2006-12-10 03:19:23 · answer #3 · answered by CupCake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing in dating is 100% accurate 100% of the time. I do know if you give in to sex too soon the relationship will not get much further in most cases not all. you have to build a relationship and get to know someone before you give into the intimatacy...some of the books i read over the years i dated helped but didnt really prep me for what was out there. Men dont come with handbooks..you just have to get out there, try them out and see which ones you have connections with. reading isnt the answer but it cant hurt i suppose..lol
2006-12-10 03:13:33 · answer #4 · answered by chasemeto2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't try it, some guys believe it or not are sensitive you might run him away. I suggest talking with him to see whats up if you like him. He might just be shy, going out with other guys might just ruin the way he feels about you.
2006-12-10 03:25:55 · answer #5 · answered by jarrow t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys like me will just find a girl that has more time for me. The second I feel stress, I run!
2006-12-10 03:09:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's also true that guys don't like mind games, so just be yourself and stop trying to inject drama into things.
2006-12-10 03:08:40 · answer #7 · answered by wsguy1983 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hunni, sure is...i played hard to get and now im married to him. it is all about the chase....worked numerous times for me over the years...i am 35
2006-12-10 03:09:53 · answer #8 · answered by ROCKER CHICK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men always want what they can't have! Just remember that. If they have it then they no longer want or need it. Women are like a conquest to them...
2006-12-10 03:07:49 · answer #9 · answered by Eastcoast beachgirl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
worked for me...once i stopped calling my bf and answering his ims, he tried to talk to me at least 3 times a day.
2006-12-10 03:12:45 · answer #10 · answered by Danityxkanexluvah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋