There is a girl whom i love more than anyone in the world. She was my classfellow and She was a very brilliant student. She won too many medals in academics (we were in a medical college together, becoming doctors). I told her that i love her two years ago and asked for her hand in marriage. She said she loved me too. She agreed but her parents resisted my proposal. She became so upset by her parents attitude and failed in a single postgraduate exam six times. For all this while i was with her, beside her, helping her, encouraging, loving and caring for her all this time. But just a week ago she messaged me and said that it's been me responsible for all her failures and told me that she's breaking up as our relationship was not a blessing rather is a curse as its hindering her progress in life. We broke up. I don't know why but all this while there was not a single day she didn't say "I LOVE YOU" 10 times. Do you think that in true love you blame the one you love for all your failures?
2006-12-10 03:04:33 · 5 answers · asked by Dr. Sam 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is totally a typical and very typical girl who has, i would say, a sick mentality. Please dont blame yourself. She is a girl who cant take responsibilities for her own actions and believe that sucks. I would thank Go.d because i did not get married to her becoz my life would have been worse than hell then. Live your life like always and i am very sure you will get a very true love who wont be passing on "HER" responsibilities on to you.
2006-12-10 03:10:07 · answer #1 · answered by so? am i jokin? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is blaming you rather than take responsibility for her failures. That is not love.
You need someone with more mental stability to spend your life with. Move on. Everytime this woman has a problem in life she will hurt those around her. There are too many people out there looking for someone, for you to waste time with a person like this.
2006-12-10 03:19:17 · answer #2 · answered by honey 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-03 09:01:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No!!! She was every upset and probably using you as a temporary scape goat. Don't get too upset though; People say a lot of things they really do not mean and regret later when they are angry. Just wait it out. She will either come back to you or she won't. Either way, just remember that time heals all wounds.
2006-12-10 03:13:39 · answer #4 · answered by chanteuse87 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no.you are not responsible.
both of you are responsible..
both of you took the vow of love..
now u must face it..
there's no easy way..
u can run..but it will come back..
trust me..
good luck
2006-12-10 03:10:10 · answer #5 · answered by applejuice 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋