We just broke up we are both over each other.We are not going to do anything sexual with anybody else.But we are going to go on dates with other people.Do it possibly meanhe could want to get back together?It's only been a week.Do you think i should continue to do it?
2006-12-10 03:01:41 · 14 answers · asked by browneyedgirl26 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are selling yourself short if you allow this guy to have his cake and eat it, too! When a relationship is over emotionally ( an you say you are both over each other) then the physical side is supposed to be over, too. It isn't a good thing for someone to only want you for sexual purposes, and it isn't good for you to allow him to do that. Perhaps it would do you some good to stay away from one another for a bit and see what's what. If then you both decide that you miss one another for something OTHER than the sexual side of it, you can see one another, but for right now, if you were MY daughter, I'd be trying my best to get you to like yourself enough to where you would not allow less in your life than you are intitled.
2006-12-10 03:09:21 · answer #1 · answered by themom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Friends w/ benifits is great. It's a good way to not sleep around but still get some satisfaction. I say talk to him and express all those questions. So you are both on the same page. You wouldn't want him thinking that you want to get back with him, when you are already over him.
2006-12-10 03:05:22 · answer #2 · answered by One Love <3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
pals with benifits could properly be a sturdy sexual launch for the two events. in simple terms in simple terms be specific you the two understand that its all its going to be. for me, i tend to stray far off from that form of element because of the fact very usually one or the different develops thoughts for the different guy or woman, which finally ends up in harm. yet, as long as you adult males dont develope thoughts for one yet another then it's going to be nice... and the style of 'friendship' shouldnt final if one or the different could desire to acquire a bf/gf...
2016-12-18 10:47:35 · answer #3 · answered by zufelt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, my last girlfiend wanted to be "friends with benefits". To her it meant we would still be friends, have sex, and go out with other people. As soon as one of use wanted to get intimate with another person, the plan included telling her/me about it, and only sex with each other would stop. SHe could handle being friends with me if I had another partner, but I knew i could not handle being friends with her if she found someone else to hold her tight. I think you may want to clarify what "benefits" means to him. Sounds like my experience says one thing, and yours says another. Chas PS good luck
2006-12-10 03:10:13 · answer #4 · answered by Charllenger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, well first of all why did u two brake up? and if hes flirting with u ,u might want toget bac toghter. u should have on of his friends ask him if he still likes you. then u will know. i have had plenty of these momments but if u two broke up in a fight dont go back out with him. i mean its simple, you just have to no why u broke up and will it happen agian.
2006-12-10 03:10:28 · answer #5 · answered by chels 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be friends w/ benefits, then be fwb. But DONT expect it to be an expression of his wanting to reunite in a gf/bf relationship.
2006-12-10 03:06:06 · answer #6 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either sleep with him or don't but don't burn out your brain worrying about it. And if you do find someone else you like give it up to them
2006-12-10 03:05:41 · answer #7 · answered by onelonevoice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be friends without benefits. tell him you have to move on and so should he and see what response you get.
2006-12-10 03:11:06 · answer #8 · answered by MJ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sex without mutual love and respect is just joint masturbation. Your call.
2006-12-10 03:06:50 · answer #9 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it.
save that for me ;)
just kidding. you should not do it and try finding other men to get freaky with.
2006-12-10 03:04:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋