tried bribing her with toys candy and money. still just wants a diaper on when she wants to go.
2006-12-10 02:43:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
She is still very young to be completely potty trained. This is a normal problem for her age/development. All you can do is wait. Have patience with her, be thankful that she will pee pee in the potty at such a young age.
It is very difficult for kids that young developmentally to understand the feeling of when it's exactly time for the poop to come out (pardon the kind of gross descriptions, but hey all of us parents have to talk about it from time to time!!) They don't necessarily understand the difference between passing gas and pooping until the action is already complete. It is just not something their little minds are in tune to yet, they have so many other things to discover in their world around them. And physiologically, they lack the muscle control to stop and start the action when it happens. This is a control they have to practice on quite a while to get the hang of - for pee pee and for poop.
My suggestion would be to try to (as much as possible) say thing to her like "did you just _____" --add what ever word you use for passing gas. We us poot for gas and poop for the solid stuff. So I would say to my son, "Who just pooted?", or however you want to say it, when I heard him pass gas. Then he was learning that gas was a different feeling with a different description. Then when he would be hiding in a corner really pooping I would go to him and say "you must be having a poop right now......come to me when you are finished and we'll clean up & get a fresh diaper." I explained to him that when he could tell be before th poop comes out then we could move on to pull ups and big boy pants.
But really just be patient. This stuff takes time and is really a hard thing for them to get a handle on. I've talked to so many parents who say their kids were potty trained at 2 yrs. and I would ask how often they have accidents. Well they were still having accidents several times a week because physiologically they just do not have enough muscle control to know the feeling, stop the potential action, and get to a parent to inform them of the upcoming event. Every child develops differently at different ages, it's ok if they don't fully potty train until they are 3 or 4 yrs old. Trust me, they will not be graduating high school still in a pull up!!!
2006-12-10 03:10:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My cousin has a two yr historical and he or she does a "potty dance" wherein she sings and dances and claps like a idiot (its truthfully beautiful lovable!) and he or she offers her daughter a jelly bean and a sticky label for every victorious potty factor. Like if she pees and poops she will get two jelly beans & two stickers that move on a chart on the toilet door. It appears to be running relatively good, her baby's favorite facet is the potty dance. Good success!
2016-09-03 09:02:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ever tried making the activity look like a game and rewarding her for it? if she poops in the toilet she gets a candy, or whatever motivates her best.
I'm not sure of the repercussions this might have on her development but considering all the bad things we get rewarded for everyday i doubt she'll develop a fetish for poop.
Besides, i don't see why hurry her into something she might not be ready for yet. If problem persists consult your pediatrician
2006-12-10 02:50:56 · answer #3 · answered by giorgio! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's only 2..give her time she will catch on when she is ready..if you see the FACE or if she hides in the corner to poop then grab her (gently) and take her to the potty and show her thats where you go..if she doesnt make it dump the diaper in the potty ..My son is six I had to really work with him..it takes lots of patience tho..give it time..
2006-12-10 02:48:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try Big Girl "panties" like Pull Ups...let her sit on the potty with the Pull Ups on and do her business.
2006-12-10 02:47:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy an uncomfortable diaper. then she wouldn't want to poop in it cause it makes here feel all sticky and stuff so she'll want another option. my mom just grabs my little brother and forces him on the toilet and doesn't let him leave until he's done. it works.
2006-12-10 02:48:49 · answer #6 · answered by YeahImAzn 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
one of the kids i helped potty trained learned faster when she had the potty where she wanted to and she was potty trained in a week
2006-12-11 13:01:45 · answer #7 · answered by chuy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you give her some privacy? i also heard that kids know it a part of them and when you flush it they get tramatized and dont want to do it anymore (wierd but it might) maybe ask her doctor
2006-12-10 02:49:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show her the South Park episode with Mr Hanky the christmas poo and she will see the funny side of jobbies and want to make her own Mr Hanky.
2006-12-10 02:46:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
just give her time...each child developes at different stages...but when she does use the toilet give her plenty of praise and this will encourage her
2006-12-10 02:46:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋