She wants him in her life,yet there are so many complications standing in the way.
2006-12-10 02:37:15 · 15 answers · asked by MaryBeth 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ohh,we're in the same situation girl..but you wouldn't know until you try..the important thing is you give yourself a break,ok. give yourself the favor of loving and being loved back. if not successful in the end, no regrets that you did it for love.as i am doing right now..it is the most wonderful feeling to be treated like you're some special.."it is better to love and lost, than to never love at all." good luck!!!
2006-12-10 02:44:45 · answer #1 · answered by Luisa 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just realising that complications exist already gets you halfway to solving them - take that as a reason to continue forward rather than a reason to look back.
We don't all live the Hollywood Movie, not even the people who work in the movies - But we can have a damn good try.
2006-12-10 11:10:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the thing that makes people hold on longer no matter how blue the end looks is love they wanna give themselves and the other person time to prove that the r/ship is worth it. anyway if you find a person who is willing to hold on no matter what it means that person will give and do anything to find true love and person who will love them for who they are no matter how many times they get heart they always look at the situation like
' he/she was not the right person for me so i will keep searching till i find that special someone who was meant just for me' that kinda thing if u catch my drift
if she feels like she really wants ti try and make that r/ship work then she should fight for what she wants but if she isnt so confident or afraid of the outcome, then she should get out when her heart is still intact rather than stay in that r/ship and end up picking the pieces of her broken heart at the end
2006-12-10 10:50:39 · answer #3 · answered by valery p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it you only live once. Who knows something beautiful might emerge from all of this. A close friend once told me this and it has helped me throughout my life in tough situations like this one. " You will break hearts and you will get your heart broken" Life goes on if it dont work pick up the pieces and move on.
2006-12-10 10:42:52 · answer #4 · answered by Evie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Complicatons can be solved or in time go away... you'll never know unless you try... it's best to love and lose... than to not have loved at all... or something like that... your smart enough to know the possibility that there could be problems... so your not going into it blindly... I say go for it... it seems to be someone you really care about... so don't let the chance for true love pass you by...
2006-12-10 10:45:47 · answer #5 · answered by Sandy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if God is in charge there is nothing to fear but fear itself.If He is not, there is too much to fear to go ahead with the relationship.With God ALL things are possible without you don't stand a snowball chance in hell.Take Care and May God Bless You.And P.S. Don't try to play GOD there is only ONE.God is in control.
2006-12-10 10:42:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did just that , only my boyfriend kept convincing me to stay because he loved me and needed me.We humans have to learn from personal experience at least me anyway if we would only listen and not do what we know will not work out it would be less hurtful in the end to all involved. your going to be hurt and angry if you break it off now and your going to be (more) hurt and angry if you do it after
2006-12-10 10:52:18 · answer #7 · answered by cindybells 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could get what she really wanted but have to work alot of things out or she could just stop trying and try again somewhere else.
2006-12-10 10:40:19 · answer #8 · answered by Rachel N 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to get drunk and go to a disco pick up another dude (there like a dime a dozen) and Party baby sont let one man bring you down!
2006-12-10 10:44:09 · answer #9 · answered by howardfan35 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the is a prime example of why women always go for the guys that treat them like that dirt i walk on now.
You need to find a nice guy that will treat you right, but since you would probably say "he's too nice for me," you will go back to a guy that treats you like crap again.
so much for the nice men out there who would actually take care of ya.
2006-12-10 10:42:12 · answer #10 · answered by $TEREOTYPE 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋